I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me so we broke up. I want to hate him but I can't and want him back so bad but now he's going out with the girl he cheated on me with. He still tells me that he loves me and he flirts a lot and last week we made out. I want to be with him but I don't understand him - either he wants me or her!! Can someone tell me how to handle this situation?
He cheated on you he betrayed your trust he's even cheating on her with you you'll never be happy with this guy if you can't trust him you can't love him once a cheater always a cheater
Don't take him back or talk to him again. He is the player type he wants you both. Find some one else to occupy your time with. I hope you do the right thing.
Girl it sounds like you still have feelings for this guy and that makes it even more difficult to realize these next couple of things that are so important. Your man was cheating so you broke up good for you. Now he is with the girl he cheated on you with so he actually went out and started a relationship with this chick then he goes behind her back and cheats with you? It's like this he did it to you I'm sure while he was doing it to you before you found out he was telling you he loved you then too rite? So what do you think he is telling her? The same thing and he will keep doing this. He only wants what is readily available to him. You gotta look at it like this; you want to protect yourself and keep your self respect he is just taking it away if he loved you he never would have left you to begin with and he most definitely wouldn't STILL be with her he would have dumped her as soon as he started "loving" you again get me? Not only that but as crazy as it sounds if he wasn't all that bad and had room for change he wouldn't ever have cheated on this other girl with you. He would have either broke up with her rite away or cut ties with you that's how you would have known he learned some kind of lesson. He obviously isn't down for anything, committed to handle it as hard as it sounds. You gotta be stronger then the feelings you have; decide you are more important and make a clean break cut him off completely if it was meant to be down the line when he grows up and gets over himself he will wake up and make a change then you two will have another chance that's if it is meant to happen. But that itself will take a lot of time-serious time but now you just gotta go your own way. You know you are worth more and there is someone out there that wants to love and respect you and know your worth so good luck girl!
Thank you so much for your advice !! I know I have to get away from him and I'm starting to do it even thought it hurts soo much not to be with him!! - 9 months ago
Tell him to choose you or her...if he shows that he knows he made a mistake, then he deserves a second chance but if he doesn't feel bad about what he did then he's a loser and you need to find someone better!
You must value your SELF. The choices you make now may determine whether you attract winners or losers (and abusers) the rest of your life. Value yourself, and don't let a liar and cheater near your heart. Draw a boundary, and stick to it. - 9 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I don't really know I usually don't plan dates very much because I always ask her where she wants to go. But I guess we would go to dinner then to a movie. I wouldn't dress upcause I don't think any date should be coat and tie. Usually I think a date should end with both people pleased and happy and with soft kiss.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
On the first date probably not that much because I'm a shy guy I really would have to get to know her before I would show my inner self. But mostly I would probably tell her about some of the things that has happened in my past and how my relationships ended. And maybe ask her what she looks for in a guy.
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