Background: I was 14 and he was 16 and we dated 5 months. It was amazing until we got further sexually (not sex) and he began to lose respect. I broke up with him once and he promised to chance, but he didt so I ended it 5 months ago at the beginning of summer. I went to camp and we didn't talk at all. I never quite let go. 3 months later he I/Med me on my birthday and we talked but he kept his words short and simple. I am hurt that I will never date him again but to make things worse he doesn't even want to be my friend. Now its Oct. 7th and we haven't talked since that day. I miss him so much and I know I had to break up with him cause I desereved better but everything I see or do reminds me of him still. Why won't he talk to me? Is he still hurt too? I have no idea how to approach this. Its been 5 months, I think he forgot me.
He's your ex. I would think that it'd be obvious why he doesn't want to talk to you. Hrm. Guess not.
It's difficult for many people to remain in a relationship (friendship) with someone they used to date. Not only is there sexual tension, but whatever caused the couple to break up can still be an issue. Most people try to keep their friendships and intimate relationships separate -- when you break up you have the freedom to move on without abandoning a long-time friend. You also don't force third parties (other friends) to pick sides.
You're going to have to accept the fact that you are no longer a couple, and that his method of getting over you is to ignore you altogether. I suggest you do the same.
(Age:Under 18)
When: A month ago
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