its been around 6 months since he dumped me. We go to the same school, know the same people and are even in each others science class. After we broke up he avoided me 4 ages and I had to keep talking to him trying to make us just be normal with each other like I am with my other exes however as the 6 week holiday came obviously we had no contact and I've been back to school for a month now and everywhere I go he avoids me.more than once I have seen him about to go to one of his mates and realises I'm going there too and literally power walks to a really far part of the building where we can no longer see each other at all. He won't look at me, talk to me, even come anywhere nearer than 10 metres of me.why? its just pissing me off and I don't even like him anymore his just drawing attention to himself we only went out for two months so why is he acting this way? sumone please help!
maybe, maybe he cares and you make him feel, so he leaves because he isn't in control of his emotions. or maybe he is christian, and because he couldn't see you, you can't see him.
no idea. this is odd.
Or maybe with the mate thing, maybe he was giving you a chance at the guy?
He definitely still likes you a lot.If he is trying to avoid you and not even look at you. he's trying to forget about you is my guess. What you should do Is give him what he is trying to make it seem like he wants, and just ignore him. He'll come running looking for you after he realizes you're not there anymore. If he cares about you still he will be very worried you're not around.
He is probably avoiding you because he still cares about you. Its hard for a guy to be around his recent ex, especially if he cared for her.
He did the dumping, so in his mind he is in control and wants to keep it. As the dumped its hard for us to think about anything but them.
Its very hard for some ex`s to be friends after a relationship. Its awkward and sometimes impossible not to feel anything less than relationship status.
My advice? Breathe, don't let it bother you so much. If you stop looking for him and running into him, it might get to him. Let him have his time and figure out what he needs. Its very hard to go to the same school as your ex, give him his space.
(Age:Under 18)
When: A month ago
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