I was dating this guy over the summer and I really like him and a best friend broke us up without me even knowing and I was really ticked off especially since it was the homecoming night! Now he won't talk to me he hasn't talked to me at all for a year. I have tried and he doesn't want to talk about anything about it. I really want to at least be his friend again what should I do? What shouldn't I do?
Hold on, did your best friend break you guys up or did his? If your best friend told him you were broken up on homecoming night I would hang it up. Breaking up with someone on a special day is totally messed up. I would apologize for doing it like that and leave the ball in his court and move on. He might not accept, and you should be understanding and accept that.
If his best friend told you he broke up with you, then the reverse applies. If you still want to be his friend you are a better person than most, and are definitely taking the high road. Don't let people treat you like crap, but credit to you for being strong and rising above all that.
It all depends who broke up with who.
If he still doesn't want to talk about it after you apologized (if you were the one whose friend told him you broke up) or if he is still being a dick (if his friend told you he broke up with you) then let go and move on.
Sounds kind of strange it was only the best friend was responsible for you guys breaking up and staying broken up. If it was just the best friends fault and no one really wanted to break up, then one conversation should have nullified this issue.
Just giving you total honesty. Don't take it the wrong way. I am saying this because I care about your situation and what you are going through.
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