Will we get back together?

Also, he's testing you. BIg time.

If you pass the test YES he may take you back.

If you fail? And keep throwing stupid $hit in his face as you have in the past and keep getting into fights with him? Then you can forget it is what he's telling you in a non sholant kind and caring way.

He's saying I don't want to fight with you anymore, if you want to fight you can fight by yourself. Which won't get you very far now will it?

So my advice to you is "GET ALONG be the best friend/girlfriend material you can be." IF YOU WANT HIM BACK. And most likely he'll take you back. IF you can't do this keep acting how you are now, and you can forget him coming back. He doesn't seem like they type of guy that is willing to deal with that BS and not most men are. Some may, but eventually they'll do the same thing to you, and say hey, enough is enough. One person can only take so much. Ya know?

So either you can shape up, get yourself together, and live happily ever after LOL maybe? You do need to learn how to communicate better with him though. So you can shape up learn some things in life. OR you can remain a 2 year old and throw a temper tantrum about every SUSPICION you encounter in life. And probably not get anywhere with any guy for very long. I'm guessing you haven't had very long relationships in life either. would by my guess? Not sure.

This is probably why.

Be lucky and glad he communicated it to you and didn't just ditch ya cause he easily could have.

So my advice is choose to learn from your MISTAKES in life. Realize he's not with anybody but you. If he was he'd be with her right now. ;).

And stop living your life by simple SUSPICON because decisions you make out of SUPPOSITION will "ALWAYS" be regreted later on, just like your regreting it right now. Or else you wouldn't care if he wants you back or not.

Instead don't make a decision like this to go after him untill "YOU" truly KNOW that is what is really going down, and have either seen it yourself or saw her walking out of your guy's place with bra in hand. If you get my point. This doesn't mean be niave. It just means before you make accusations you should "MAKE SURE" that is the case.

;)

First off, I have some advice I think you need to hear.


1. If you can't trust your B/F and you think all he's doing is cheating on you why are you with him to start with? Good question huh?

2. It's not just him, "YOU" need to drop this other girl "COMPLETELY" the more you throw her in his face the madder he is going to get with you, and you can "SIMPLY" forget getting back with him for good most likely.

3. This means, "YOU" either have to stop mentioning her, or risk loosing him. Like I said, if you can't trust him, and you think something is going on, why are you even together?

4. Trust is the biggest part of a relationship, and if you don't have this maybe you need to reavaluate some things in your realationship and yourself, and maybe most likely realize there wasn't as close of a realationship there as you once thought there was to begin with.

5. If he really wants to be with this other girl, treating him in this manner isn't going to help, nor solve the problem. It's merely going to show him, your a control freak, and that you have Zero self esteem, and that maybe he is better off with the other girl anyhow.

And I don't think this is all what "YOU" truly want? Right?

Because "YOU" need to remember this because it is very very important right now. The more you anger him, the more you push and shove, you stand to gain absolutly "NOTHING." Accept more heart ache, etc. Because if your treating him like this and you where a guy what would you do? I'll tell ya what I'd do, I'd ditch you first, and I'd probably go and have mad passionate kinky wild sex with this other girl. Then where do you stand? Get my point? Don't drive him more into her finger tips. Your simply just giving her more power and she'll just laugh all the way to the bank hun. My best advice to you is. IF you honestly can't stand him talking to her etc. Maybe if he's not willing to reconsider your feelings that should show you something. Maybe you aren't realationship material, maybe your not mentally ready, or Perhaps maybe your just with the "WRONG" person, and somebody out there "WOULD" respect you and your feelings. So, to each their own take this for what it's worth because it's valid info.

So, just my .02 and good luck to ya, and remember if you want to keep this guy, you might just have to learn to bite your tongue.

OR

Move on.

Because he wants to fool around, and you've made it clear that he can't do that without leaving you.

Relationships naturally go through cycles. At first, you are infatuated, then you get to know each other better and become more comfortable. Soon, all that hand-holding and spontaneous make-out sessions stop (done it before, right?) and the 'fire' seems to go out. Relationships keep effort to continue, but sometimes they DO fizzle out. Maybe you're not as good a match as you thought? I would SUGGEST taking the break. You two seem to be mature people and can probably handle a little time apart. See how you feel about each other (if you trust each other enough to go on a break). A lot of guys will take a 'break' to mean they can go bang anyone they want, but if he really feels for you he won't. He'll be up at night wishing he was with you and missing those little things that attracted him to you (and you will feel the same, ideally) On the other hand, you may realize that things have just died down to the point where you're better off not being together.

Time apart really brings people together, it will allow you to examine your own emotions without interference and answer those questions you probably didn't even know are floating around in your head.

Many guys say, "lets be friends" because they feel its right the right thing to say. They feel that if they say lets be friends that it magically stops the hurt they are causing. Accept the break up, but tell him you do not if being friends right now is a good idea. Being friends right after a break up is never good. There is to many strong feelings, and hurt to be friends that soon. GIve it some time, give your self sometime, and when you have accepted the break up then try to be friends.
Just because you love someone that doesn't mean that being in arelationship with them is the best. Maybe you are suppose to love each other but not be in a relationship. Maybe your meant to be best friends instead.

because relationships are tough, and I've been through the same thing. smae situation. reading it brought tears to my eyes.
maybe he needs his space, time to think about you. to see if its really worth it.
give him his space.
and if he goes out with someone else, don't get mad, because maybe he's trying to see if the grass really is greener on the other side.

and he will call. he will show up at your door.
sit him down and talk to him for a while. tell him how you feel and if you think you guys can be friends. ask him how he feels and don't interupt. (I made that mistake :))
you will probably get back together. don't feel like the world hates you. seek comfort in family.

he obviously is still into you, but from experience jealousy turns off a guy quicker than anything. my suggestion is you let that guy go, and in two months don't be waiting around for him. If he wants you, he'll come.