So, he was my friend with benefits for 3 months and then he cut me off. I sent him one e-mail once every 2 weeks. and he didn't reply. I sent him a text message once every 3-4 days and he didn't reply. Then I said "If you don't reply I'm going to your house to visit you." (my friend told me to say that)
Then he says at 6:30 "Meet me at starbuicks at 7:00 in streetsville."
(I was out with my friends I said) "I'm out with some friends right now, and I don't have a car, I'll see you some other, time."
He says "Too bad, I thought you wanted to talk. I guess you just wanted to harrass me. Please stop sending me stuiped text messages and just forget about me."
I said "I'll be there in 5 minutes."
He says "Too late"
I said. "I'll be there just wait." He says "I left. please leave me alone."
Then I said. "Give me any day or time and I will be there as long as you let me know in advance."
What do I do now? I have no idea what he's so hositle, bad tempered and angry. What do I do?
Update: I called him 2 seconds after he sent me the first text message. The phone rang 8 times, and jhe didn't pick up. Does it seem like he wants to punish me?
11 months ago
I want to know why he cut me off. He won't tell me. - 11 months ago
Answerer
U mean why he cut you off after you sorta blew him off?i think you jus answered the qn yourself..u called him like mad and when he finally agrees you blew him off...of course he'll cut you off - 11 months ago
OMG he sounds like the guy I just broke up with, this is how he treated me. He doesn't live in Australia does he lol. Stop texting and contacting him altogether, he can't miss you if you keep doing that. also he may not feel the same way, it seems you have stronger feelings than he does, since he sees you as a fwb.
no he doesn't want to punish you he is just showing you that he doesn't want to be in contact with you at the moment. You need to pick up your dignity and walk away while its still in tact. Trust me ! I have been in similar circumstances and taking the non commumication route is far more likely to work in the long run. If you feel the need to call him just ring a friend and tell her to remind you why you shouldnt call him. Be strong darling and remember your dignity and respect for yourself are far more important than knowing what he's up to or why he won't speak to you!
i would have to suggest that you leave this guy alone. I know you may be confused and hurting but the one thing that men really hate is to be bombarded. It is much better for you to save face and dignity and leave him alone. If he wants to be with you then he will come to you, he knows how to contact you, but I can guarentee you from past experience that if you continue to contact him like this you will lose any hope of having any type of relationship with him, being freindship or something more. I know how tempting it is to call and text constantly til you get a reply but believe me if you can hold off you will reap the benefits.
I'm curious as to why I got a down arrow for my answer. It's the first down arrow I've gotten so far and I usually get plenty of up arrows and a few "best answers."
I'd also like to know why the anonymous user above me got a down arrow - I kinda like her answer too, especially the leaving him alone and show the respect part.
I've liked this guy for four years, and you want me to just give him up without doing anything about what I want. Your answer was not helpful because you did not answer the question: How do I get him to talk to me? - 11 months ago
Answerer
I don't mean necessarily give up on him yet but instead just give him space. From what he's said he obviously wants you to leave him alone at least for now. He wouldn't be saying "Please stop sending me stuiped text messages and just forget about me...please leave me alone" for nothing. - 11 months ago
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sorry, doesn't sound like he wants to talk to you, he probably is upset he is your friends with benefits. maybe should leave him alone, at least show the respect that you would want for yourself
Honestly, you ask a question and people give you advice. don't be emotional, the only reason I got an arrow down is maybe who didn't like my answer can't face reality.i could sugar coat it for you but I don't think that will help, or maybe I'm right? - 11 months ago
Seriously ok maybe he might be down. Or some other horrrible excuse of the sort. Try again, give it a week or so. If he keeps pulling this then 'move-on'. Don't stress your mind over waiting for him because quite frankly there are millions of things that you could be thinking about.
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