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How Do I Forget Him?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Always easier said then done,but it's been months and I can't get over him. How do I do this with out going crazy about it?
We didn't date,but we talked and he made it seem like he was ganna ask me out.I know he likes me but I guess not enough,because he chose her over me.


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Expert: Matt-Titus
When: More than a year ago
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Don't rethink your decision
Examine what happened, and ask yourself why.
Keep your distance.
Accept your pain.
Think through everything thoroughly, but not obsessively.
Deal with the hate phase.
Talk to your friends.
Write all your feelings down. Write in a journal or write poems. Most of all, be absolutely honest and don't edit yourself as you go.
Clean up!
Find happiness in other areas of your life. Whether that means spending time with your friends and family, taking up that class you've always wanted to take, or reading every book on the New York Times bestseller list, remind yourself that a relationship is one part of life, but even when you are in one, there are personal pleasures that you can always enjoy on your own. Indulge in those things now. As they say, the best revenge is living well.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 3 months ago
Just keep yourself occupied with friends and activities.
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PsychMike      When: More than a year ago
I'm sorry to hear that you were put in this situation. It is sad to see when a guy does this to a girl. I personally would never lead on multiple girls at the same time, but then again, I'm not all guys in the world.

The sad truth of the matter is that you will just have to move on for now. As long as there is another girl involved with him, there is really little you can do about it. I would say to stop even being friends with him, this will spark his interest as to why you aren't paying much attention to him anymore. When he talks to you just make it seem like there are more important things in your life than him. Then when he breaks up with the other girl, you start giving him more attention, but only after he gives you the attention first. You don't want to be the one chasing in this situation.

Another good idea would to go and look for a better guy. There are many out there. Good luck.
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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: More than a year ago
yeah, same here. Just fill your life up with lots and lots of activities, work, school, club, martial arts, sports, shopping, chores, going out with friends etc etc. once you get busy, there won't be a second left to think about him.

I don't talk to my ex-bf or think anything fond of him. I've just trained myself to think like we never met because yeah, he's been with many many different girls since me, he's not worth my time, thinking of him takes up my time, think of him and moping about him and what went wrong is needless worry because the bastard doesn't even think about me anymore. So I think about it like this, my life is more important than his and I should focus on myself.

So take care of yourself better, take time out for yourself and do the things you love to do to make you happy and forget to needlessly worry about what this guy is doing. chances are he's not even thinking about you if he's with another girl. That's how I stopped thinking about my ex. good question ^_^
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PhunSizedShawty      When: More than a year ago
after a break up .. I usually go out;have fun; & meet new people.
it helps ALOT!
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
NO LIE, I'm going through the EXACT same thing.
ughhhh horrible isn't it?
:'(

well my only advice is...dont talk to him. becuase I bet when you do,
hes all like flirty and calling you baby and that you're his' or maybe things
that make you think he likes you. but he's just like messing around BIG TIME.

right ?

i know that there's a part of you that wants to forget him completly, but there's another
part that just wants him sososo much. but you seriously can't let him play with you like
that. I mean...ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. if he wanted you you wouldn't be having to wait that long.
Just think of all the times that he hurt you and lied to you (if he did) and that'll probably make
you realize how stupid you were in actually believing all of his bull ! sooo please do this
for yourself and forget about him , because -even if I don't know you- I know for a fact that you
deserve better than that. becuase if you think about it...he was probably just flattered that you liked him and he liked the attetion and MAYBE that's all he was trying to get out of you. <-im not saying it was, I'm just kind of using the facts in my situation.

i hope this helped, it deffinitly helped me :D
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