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I don't really feel the same way.

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exopulchritude (Age:Under 18) When: 7 months ago

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Okay. so. I'm going out with this kid for the fourth time. Pathetic I know. And I just don't feel the same way as I used to about him. I mean the first time I like him a lot. But he hurt me because he cheated on me. Same thing for the second and third time.

I am now going out with him again. And I thought I would give it a try. But I guess I just really don't trust him. I mean he lied to me ALL the time. And I don't know if he is going to continue. and.. idk. I just don't feel the same way as he does about me.
He's like obsessed.

Now I've been thinking. I don't really feel for him in the relationship kind of way.
But I'm a very nice person and don't want to hurt his feelings. But it's come to my attention that, if I play along, it will hurt him worse in the long run.

I really have no idea what to do.
help?

And if your gonna tell me to break up with him.
How would I go about doing so without totally killing him?


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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35) When: 7 months ago

So you're saying he cheated on your 3 times and you're worried that you will will hurt him? are you kidding me? You better wake up and develop some type of personality pronto, along with some self esteem, cause otherwise at the rate you're going, you'll get run over by the million of nice guys out there.

How do you break up with him? Since you seem to be too nice, just tell him that you're too busy to be going out and you want to concentrate on studying. Kind of lame, but heck, if he cheated on you 3 times, is lamer that you're worried about 'killing him..." Lord have mercy!

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Experience-Babe (Age:18 to 24) When: 7 months ago

Don't worry he'll get over you. Don't worry about hurting him because he hurt you more than you have hurt him.Put your nice feelings aside and bring out the bitchyness in you!Come on everybody has a bitchy side. Even I do. Explain to him what you think and why.If he asks you why tell him everything that he's done to you on the past and then tell him that that's why you don't like him anymore.

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