Ive been in a relationship with this guy for 3.5 almost 4 years. His mom dies when he was young and his family is spread nationwide. I have a BA in psych no job and I'm trying to continue to graduate school and looking for a job everyday but because he doesn't see it he thinks I'm not doing anythign right and he has a certification for HVAC and a job. the past six months have been nothing but about this new girl that he met at work. He kept telling me at first I'm going to meet another girl who is going to approach me and I'm just going to leave her for you and the only reason he would say that is because I want approaching him sexually as much as he would have liked. so now he was given an ultimatium not once but 3x form me and each time he choose her over me. Each time I would tell him I don't care he would run back and say I want to be wiht u. I have called the girl several times and told her to back up off him but he keeps telling her that I'm lying and that we are not broken up so he can continue with her. he has told me several times how he has touched her and kissed her and how she has touched him. then even worse every time I think things are back to normal between us he compares me to her. he tells me well she smells nice you don't well she has a job you dont. NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE! but she doesn't even have her GED and is a cleans toilets she also has a daughter and wants him to father her. I don't understand! I mean I know where I went wrong and I know what to change and I have! I dress differently I'm approaching him more and I'm even being more understanding. like he told me that she ends arguments quicker than I do! so I started but its like nothign is working he wants her! he is no longer the same person when I met him. his sexual drive was much stronger and his heart was much bigger. He is lying to me about everything! he is keeping secrets from me and pushing me away! I've read books and books about what to do and I want to try it I'm just so scared that he might go sleep with her and if he does it will definitely be over between me and him!...how do I get him back! and when I say him I mean the man that I first met? I miss him so much even when I'm with him I miss him and I tell him that but all he does is tell me that I'm annoying or that the things I'm doing are making him go back to her...or I am not doing a good job...or I'm selling her not me when I bring her up...everything I do whether it is right in reality or wrong in reality its wrong in his eyes...he sees me as unsuccessful and he degrades me constantly, and disrespects me! I don't know who the hell he is anymore I don't know what the hell to do! I tried moving on but my heart won't let me! All I can do is cry and cry some more...i don't even know what I feel for him I can't eat sleep or even get up in the morning! all I can picture is him touching her and her touching him! his family loves me and expect us to marry...idk what to do! if there is any1 that can help me PLZ! IM BEGGING HELP ME!
I'm just wondering here... is it that he has no respect for you or you have no respect for yourself that's the problem? You are holding on to a sinking ship. I would leave asap than be treated like crap.
yeah hun I know how you feel wanting to guy you met the first time...he knows you want him now and I'm sure the other girl is making you jealous so he does all the talking to get you more madd and jealous seems to me that he doesn't like you for who you are...and no matter what ur always going to miss him intell you let go...stop going after him be ur self and respect yourself maybe one day hell see what a stupid mistake he did and than hell come after you but by then ull already be moved on to bigger and better things don't let one guy ruin ur whole life stay strong and keep your head up...be confident and show him he doesn't deserve you...if its not ment to bee than just wait ull find someone better...dont chase after it let it come too you..
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