Why is it that every single one of my ex-boyfriends...?

Let me guess. At least sometimes, you DO hook up with them, right?

If so, makes perfect sense. Guys like to hook up with exes.

If not, they just like you and somehow got to THINKING that you want to hook up with them post break up. How did that happen, I wonder? I'm not saying its your FAULT, just that if you make a clean, clear break with a guy, this doesn't happen unless he's a stalker. You're probably not breaking it off very cleanly. Or, if you're TOTALLY innocent here, then all your exes are simply cheating stalkers with closure issues.

It makes sense from a guys perspective. What it means is that you are probably better in bed than their new girlfriends, and that they still like you, but at the same time there was something about you that they couldn't get past. I don't know what that could be but a lot of times it's very demanding women who are a little aggressive that get that kind of behavior from guys. They might see you as just one of the guys that happens to be a very attractive woman who is good in bed. So I guess, if you wanted to, you could have some fun with them and give them really bad advice.

Yea, it makes sense; sounds like true players to me...have a few girls on their to do list, and while getting a piece of action, find another girl, but still get some action at home. You're not the only one that experiences that. Common routine that we guys do to vary the routine. :S

Some guys just don't have the ability to live up to your standards.. It's like they know that they don't make you happy enough and can't change they're flaws for you. So they break up with you. knowing that your such a good person, probably even a good hook-up. It's up to you to keep it strictly friends after unless you don't mind the attention. So basically they do you a favor by leaving you free to look for the right guy. Believe me, there is the right guy out there who will sweep you off your feet and not take you heart for granted.

Because they still like you and apparently are idiots! Do not hook up with them. Tell them if they need advice contact Dr. Phil...If they need a hook up? Call a hooker but if they need a friend, you will be their friend. But to not ask you questions about new girlfriends then hang up. Simple.