What can push a guy away?

Not swallowing is bad... just kidding. Getting too serious too soon, trying to control his time and smothering are bad things. Act less worried about what he's up to. Good luck. P.S. ur pic is hot. feel free to send me nude ones of yourself.

Tell him to get lost
tell him you never meant anything to you in the first place
Don't talk to him for days on end, stop all forms of communication and he will get the hint
You take more in the relationship than take
being around me 24/7 without any space with myself

-selfishness. taking, taking, taking my time and money, and never giving me anything but grief, demands, and insults.

-asking my feelings, then saying hurtful things like "you don't really mean that!" or "why would you think something so foolish?"

-using her sexuality as a bargaining tool.

- expecting me to behave like one of her girlfriends. news flash: men and women are different. not better, not worse, just different.

-playing headgames and testing me

-poor communication. women tend to talk a lot, but that doesn't always mean they're saying anything valuable.

being around me 24/7 is the biggest thing that makes me not like a lady but then again I know guys who cants stand being away from their lady just look at he often he hangs out with friends to get a perspective for example if he hangs out seldomely then don't bug him all the time annd if he loves company than hang out all the time if you can stand it

being too aggressive. Like trying to get into a guys conversation with his friends. That's makes you look desperate and lame. And if we found you hot before we won't anymore.

Being insensitive is a big one. believe it or not, even strong men have feelings that if triggered right can be severely hurt. if a guy comes to you wanting to talk or is upset about something for the love of God talk to him. try to comfort him even if you don't know much about his problem. looking at him like a weakling or a crybaby etc. will seriously screw with his mind and heart and telling him to "get over it" or sh*t happens will not only detour him but he'll likely not want to speak to you for a while if ever again. insulting him in a time like this can also turn his emotions to anger or even hate, so be careful. don't be an attention hog. if the guy thinks you have to have not only his but everyones undivided attention then your chances of him giving you a second look are slim to none. if he wants to go out and do something at least try to go spend time with him. I'm not talking about a routine date but if in a situation where either you just started talking or have hit a slump and can't seem to go out for whatever reasons, if you guys just havnt been spending much time at all and something has spoiled your last 3 date attemps this will deffinitely detour him. he may think you don't want to see him, spend time with him. it'll generally send the message "I'm losing interest". so try to make time in a case like this. please take this to heart and feel free to ask me any question you may have.

You know -- you want a man to want you. Stop chasing him. Period. Even if you internal voice tells ur to call txt email -- don't. Just disappear all of a sudden.

Jealousy
Mood swings
Lies
Lies about lying
B.S. excuses
Cheating
Being Clingy
Questioning everything the guy says
Lead ons
indecision
manipulative games
overall dishonesty
half-truths
cheating
asking for advice and immediately blowing it off
abuse
spreading rumors (about anybody)
giving someone's penis a nickname
invading a guy's private time
A lack of empathy
ignoring a guy
ditching a guy
Asking questions that are obvious traps
double standards

This is the stuff off the top of my head. If any of these need further clarification please ask me about them one at a time. I may have a story to tell about it. because believe me... I've been in some seriously f***ing BAD relationships.

getting close to one, leading them on, then acting like you didnt

Flirting with other guys.

mind games, Lies, don't know what she wants,

Mind games will really turn me away from a girl. Also disrespecting me in front of people I know or just being rude to me will be a great way to get me a one-way ticket outta Dodge.

Being controlling / mind games

A lot of these could go for things that would turn off the woman if the guy did these, but, well, most of these are kind of "treat others as you'd want to be treated." Guys, girls, if you're doing these, then you need to take a hard look at yourself and at the relationship too.

Here are mine, and yes, one ex in particular did a LOT of these; needless to say, the relationship didn't last long.

1) Always talking about someone behind their back. Now this is bad enough when you don't care much for them in front of them, but it's a real turn off when some girls act like they're "best friends" in front of each other but after the party,

2) Always talking about the Ex; whether you still pine for him, or claim to hate his guts, just drop it.

3) Talking about past sexual conquests. Bragging about the ex boyfriends junk.

4) Racism, or on the other side of the coin, talking about how you love how well endowed certain races are.

5) Talking way too seriously about anything relationship wise too early. Asking to move in with a guy after a month, insisting on buying promise rings a month in, etc

6) calling and insisting on calling him any more than three times a day, every day; a quick goodnight or good morning, text: ok; a hey, I'm going to be late to dinner, fine, that happens... but wanting to have 30 minute conversations while you're both at work, that's not good.

7) Not wanting to plan anything, ever. This is sort of simlar, but I guess it could have it's own number, but... this is one... NEVER paying for anything. Ok, first date, guy pays. Three months in though, treat your guy to a movie or at least be willing to pay your half.

8) Always insisting on your way.

9) Man bashing, even as a joke. Yep, this goes to "training" jokes how men are stupid and need to be trained... and bragging about how he's at your beck and call. No, it's not funny and not cute.

10) Abusers. Whether we're talking drugs, alcohol, or we're talking physical and emotional, don't do it. That's my turn off.

11) Women who laugh at crotch hits. It's not really funny. It's painful. Some guys will laugh, but it's more like a "nervous laugh" because they recognize the pain.

Tell you what, you laugh at a man getting hit in the crotch, I'll laugh at your "Time of the month." I don't think your period is funny, I recognize that sometimes it has to be very painful to you, so I don't laugh. I'd probably be the one to try and help out when hurting... so don't laugh at a guys crotch pain.

12) Not letting a man have his guy time. Being too clingy.

13) Constantly ditching your friends because of the new boyfriend. Yup, that can be a turn off to the man. Not only because "absense makes the heart grow fonder" but if we feel like you're avoiding your friends just because of the new guy, then you might do the same to us some day.

14) Lying, cheating, etc. The usual.

Well, that's my list.

well I'm not trying to make the girls look bad but there is a lot of sfutt. Without them though our live would be BORING! Just be yourself and you are going to notice your own mistakes.

Being insesative. Beleive it or not. I'm starting to find that's a big one for me.

Each guy is different really. If it is just one bad quality, telling the person might make them ease off a bit. Like super clingy is really annoying but mildly clingy is alright.

My suggestion is to talk to the guy from the start. Later if he uses clingy but didn't say it in the beginning he either, A) didn't realize that it would bother him since he doesn't know himself that well or B) is using that instead of the real reason

Guys face this with girls, we don't know what those mistakes might be until we do them. You might think this is hard to understand but some women don't like when guys open the door for them, or pay for their drinks. They want to feel independent and not feel like they are obligated to return the favor in other ways. Some women hate jewelry others hate flowers or candy. One girl yelled at me thinking I was trying to get her fat on candy because I like big women.

Just be open and honest from the start. Know yourself and see if the guy knows himself. Don't settle, find that guy that completes you. Make sure you two are looking for the same thing (i.e. both willing to put 100% in a relationship, not one wants a FWB and the other marriage). Don't change him, accept him and all his quirks and flaws. You may even miss those flaws when he's gone.

Hmmm, how about, "wow, that's a small dick".

I like women, and a few of the things that turn me off are the usual, lying, cheating, mind games. Generic sh*t.
But I do have a few things that bother me, that might not bother other people as much as it bothers me. lol
When a girl talks like a valley girl, you know the "Omg, like I totes love those shoes, like theyre so like hot" . Fuck that bothers me.
Also, when a girl is trampy. Yeah, it's not bad for a one night thing, but to go out with? Naaahhh.
I wouldn't be proud to date a slut.

Be mean, controlling, too jealous, selfish

you could push someone away by talking about someone to much preferably like an ex boyfriend constantly bringing him up in the conversation, it kind of makes men feel like your living in the past and that you don't want to go on with the future. which would be a future with you and whoever your with.

i think guys get scared off when a girl is harsh with him. like he's not used to it.
i know I am harsh sometimes. but that's just how I was raised and I can take it
but that would be a mistake.
or texting him way too much, that's also a bad thing
you stop when you actively tell yourself to stop

Guys hates a nagger girlfriend.

not taking care of her looks.being always sad.being crazy jealous.having a small mind.having no interests except him

Being clingy, insecure, overbearing, bossy, rude...there are many things.