My boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me after a fight with my ex-husband.. restraining order and the whole deal. He then told me I was the love of his life and then on the same day but later that night he confessed that he was "talking" to another girl. I decided to ignore him he has been trying to get a hold of me ALL weekend but I just took the phone off the hook and focused on other things.. finally he calls and says he needs his jacket and on the way home from work he was going to pick it up. (Keep in mind he gives his buddy a ride, so his friend was in the car with him) I agreed and he came to get his jacket for work but walked into the house and without saying a word, started kissing me and one thing led to another and we had sex--very very quick sex. Then he texts me when he gets home and calls me by first name no baby or babe or anything, distant in a way but sweet at the same time.. if that makes sense. He was sweet if it was a girl he just met but I know what sweet sounds like from him and that was not it! Here is my question...Have I become his booty call?? I just want to D I E !
Don't feel that way. You are not a booty call. A booty call happens after 4 shots of jager and a few beers and you are on your way home from the club and you call your "booty" call. Now, if he does do that then yes. But right now, he missed you and one thing led to another. You don't text booty calls. He is still interested. He just showed it by sex. You are in your thirties so, you both knew what you were doing. You will be fine. Promise.
I hope your right he has not called me today...the day after! I just think that if he does not call me I should not make the move of calling him at all! He probably really wants to split and I am getting in his way. What do you think? - 6 months ago
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Don't call him. He will call. He might be confused. - 6 months ago
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