I'm 24 and have been with my girl for 2.5 years (lived with each other the past 1.5 I think). We're basically the same person, don't like to go out much just kinda chill and do our own thing. That's kinda coded but lets just say it includes a lot of TV/Movie watching and munchie eating. She comes home the other day and cuts it off with me right out of the f*ckin blue. At first she said she needed space and had to "be her", I just think it was her damn friends and girls at work getting into her head. Either way she leaves the house for a good 4 days, like an idiot I called and begged/promised to change on a couple voice mails but she wouldn't answer. Sent me into an emotional tailspin. Came home Friday to "talk" but there was no real talking I think the official reason she said was she said I changed after being laid off, and maybe I did but I challenge anybody who has been laid off from a job doing what they love and are good at to not change at least a little, it's a f*cking gut check in itself. We were also planning on going on vacation after she turned 21 too.
Anyway she didn't talk as much as pack more clothes and things to go stay with her friend. She turned 21 yesterday and was supposed to have a party or w/e I guess she did, I haven't talked to her since she left and she hasn't contacted me in anyway. I don't plan on calling her for I guess hell I don't even know how long. Thinking about moving back home (KY to TX) but if I do that it means it's pretty much over. Gonna try and play it cool though, but damn it's hard. Honestly I'm thinking her friends and girls at work started spewing sh*t into her ear and she started listening.
The last thing I said to her was for us to spend 2.5 years together and you're gonna drop me just like that without a real explanation or opportunity to work things out hurts and it says a lot.
Okay so feedback plz am I done for good and if not what do I do and what's the plan of action other than trying to get her off my mind (which is ridiculously hard in itself). Feels weird not eating but I haven't been hungry hardly at all and it's even harder to sleep...
you sound exactly like what happened between my boyfriend and I (same amount of time dating, similar age difference). the reason I dumped him is because he cheated on me though..i'm sure that's not your problem. maybe she just lost the spark?
SOunds like she's pretty much done. And as far as her decision to break it off goes, she may have had people talking to her at work, but no amount of talking could make someone break up with their significant other without that person really wanting too. If she really wanted to be with you then she would no matter what anybody said to her. And as for a reason why sounds like all she had in her life was hanging out watching tv with you- spending all your time with one person can get tiring and make her feel isolated. That's probably why she said she needed to "be her" because she lost herself in a "we" situation. I think her decision is probably pretty set because breaking up with someone you have dated for 2.5 years is a big decision and she probably put a lot of thought into it before she did it. Whatever her motivations were for breaking up it is her decision and if she's moving on so should you.
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