A few of my short term boyfriends have told me that it just takes to long to get to know them. This is in the past, now I have to be careful because of my own reasons health wise but I am an attractive girl and am always thinking I'm losing out because they run off so soon. And I don't date a lot so I don't know what to do?
Stick to your guns. The "boys" that are saying that are just that "boys". Anyone of worth and stature would invest the time to get to know you. Trust me, they are the ones losing out and you will meet someone worth your time. Just be patient.
I know they are just the boys, I'm partially deaf and I had to ask my boyfriend to repeat himself, before he knew I was deaf, I tried to tell him, and he copied me and made fun of me and sarcastically repeated what I said. It was so bad. I couldn't understand. - 9 months ago
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Oh my. I promised the mediators that I would tone my replies down a bit but, HE IS A LOSER! Sweetie, ditch that guy and find a real man. A man that has compassion has love and will not be bothered by such things. I wouldn't be - 9 months ago
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He ditched me, right in front of a new group of friends at school. Then he sat down and put his arm around some hot trotting fox that I later found out to be his good friend who lives on a different floor in his dorm. Why would a boy do this stuff? - 9 months ago
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I know he's just a jerk, but do you think he likes this other girl, or just adding insult to injury? - 9 months ago
You need to meet the right kind of guys. Find a more mature set of guys to date that won't run off. You can find someone and be happy. With any relationship you have a period of getting to know someone. If they don't take the time to do that? Then they are the ones losing out. Not you.