Be Yourself! I find nothing more attractive than a girl who is comfortable with being who she is all the time. What I mean is Ill say I like a band or a movie and a girl will tell me they are awful and we will flirt around about our taste in music or movies. She didn't just agree with me when she could have. One day you'll find a guy who will absolutely love you for this and things will just start to happen.
First, ask yourself, what kind of guy are you looking for. Get yourself some standards. Do you want an intelligent guy, a strong guy, a suave guy, or any mixture of these traits? There are no wrong answers and it's ok to experiment. Then, ask yourself, what are your strong points? What do you find sexy about yourself? It's important to be confident. If you like a guy, flirt with him, if he responds positively, great, if not, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't be afraid of rejection, it happens to the best of us. Attraction is a skill, and as with all skills, it's hard at first and takes constant refining.
I agree with Vienna, you have to know what kind of guy you want. Also talking to guys might help as well, even though rejection is bad there are still others out there that might say yes. Just be yourself and you'll find someone - 5 months ago
-Tone up/lose weight if you're overweight. -Update your hairstyle. Guys don't care a whole lot about this but it'll make YOU feel cuter -Get your nails and toes done. Men look at toes. If you have F'd up feet get used to getting laughed at. Plus it looks more feminine. -Always smell good. -Don't dress bummy. A big hoodie is cute if it's his, but don't look like you just left the gym all the time or he will think you're lazy. -Wear makeup; enough to look polished and cover up any imperfections, but don't look like a prostitute or a drag queen -Smile and look approachable
What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I don't use any lines.. leave those to the cheese balls! I usually start by making a joke, complimenting a part of their outfit, or ask if they are having a good time or like the place.. if they are interested in conversation I will have no trouble making her laugh!
How do they typically respond?
If they don't respond positively or have that look on their face like there is somewhere else they need to be, I drop conversation and move on... otherwise my smile, laugh, and constant eye contact usually causes them to be interested in getting my number or hanging out for a while longer!