Been dating this guy for over two months now, we're exclusive (his idea) from the beginning. He called me (believe guy should be the one), the most I would go was a day to two days throughout the week, of not hearing from him. Last we saw each other was Thurs the 4th. He works night and I work days, so we're limited when we can see each other. Everything was fine, he stayed the night and then Friday night we texted a bit (he was working) and then he disappeared for 5 days! On the fifth day I went against my better judgment and called. He answered, but before I even asked what he'd been up to, he started saying "He's been so busy with work and it's killing him, hasn't had a day off, going on his third week without one and he was on his way in now ..." That was the last I talked to him and I haven't called since. It'll be a week in a few days! Is he really just busy or not interested ?
Update: Nothing out of the normal went on when we were hanging out, just laughing and cracking jokes like normal. He asked if I missed him, which he ALWAYS asks. When we talked he was normal, almost excited to talk but then nothing since.
2 months ago
yeah move on, he's trying to fade away and just can't bring himself to tell you. I call the girl I like everyday, even if its just for a few minutes, and that's what he should do, he gets little breaks every now and then.
the boy has moved on... happened to me this summer... by my ex-fiancee.. I say forget this fool... and wen he comes crawling back, remind him of his 'diappearing act'. Then kick his ass outta your life for good. He's a loser. He's no good to you in any capacity.
He is not that interested obviously if it is going this long. he just don't know how to tell you without hurting your feelings. So what he is doing is each time, he's MIA longer and longer and now its over a week. Clear sign that he trying to slowly get away. Just remember this: No matter how busy a guy gets, if he is really into you, he will make the time. its 24 hours in a day, he could call you real quick to say hi or text you something if he really wanted too. there's is no excuse. So if you find yourself dating a guy and he is not really making much effort into seeing you, then you already know that he is just not that into you, hon. if I was you, I'd forget about him.
Thats what I always do.. no matter how busy I am... - 2 months ago
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I agree completely with you, but I wanted others opinions. I just thought guys who made the effort to be exclusive with you, would also have the decency to end things. You're only as good as your word! - 2 months ago
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A lot of guys are afraid of confrontation. They don't want to face hearing how you are going to react. Its easier for them to just disappear. - 2 months ago
I had that happen to me, except on the third day of his not returning the couple texts I sent him, or the couple calls, I waltzed on into his work(he worked at Subway) and asked what was going on. He told me nothing was wrong but I knew something was up. He called later that night and broke up with me.
At some point you have to demand repsect. Don't be needy, but don't tolerate disprespect. Normally I would have let it go, but it was deliberate disrespect to disappear like that.
Track his ass down and ask what's up. It isn't hard to send a quick text to someone to let them know you're thinking about them. I don't buy his story.
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