I met this guy saturday night. He's friends with my friend's boyfriend. We hung out all night..talked all night and I ended up sleeping with him. The next morning we had sex again and he took me to my car. Perfect gentlemen..opened my door etc etc...it's monday afternoon...when should I expect to hear from him? or will I hear from him at all?
Update: So it's Thursday and he calls and we went to dinner and stayed up talking till like 5am. It was really nice and we had a heart to heart about the situation...I don't know if it's just bs but so far he seems to be pretty genuine...we're going out again Sat
2 months ago
Update: So things are good! We are still dating..taking things slow..we hang out probably 4-5 times a week but who knows it is still pretty early to tell though...fingers crossed!
A month ago
Most of the time, girls who "put out" on the first date, get "put out" before there's a second. Though few would ever tell you this, most men would rather marry women who have never had close encounters of the sexual kind with other men. No one wants to think of the woman they love as having been in this situation. Just the way we were made.
Im actually not sure about that. If you marry a girl that puts out easily she will probably cheat. If you married a virgin who's only experience was with you she might cheat to see what else is out there. I think it's more down to the individual and trust. But I do know what you mean, I hate the thought of my girl with other guys.. even before I knew her. Which makes absolutely no sense. Haha. - A month ago
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I hear what you're saying, but, in most cases, women of today who have maintained their viginity, have done so by choice. This being the case, if they were inclined to "see what else is out there", they would have chosen to do so prior to marriage. And you too recognize the discomfort associated with thinking of our wives in acts of intimacy with other men, as this sensation is something we all hold in common. Though it makes no "sense" on the surface, I maintain we were created this way. ; - ) - A month ago
I don't agree with some of the answers so here is mine. If he likes you for whatever reason he should call you again, but expect it to be a friends with benefits type of thing. More might progress but that will take time to find out.
If he think what type of girl you are for sleeping with him on the 1st night, what will you think of him if he slept with you on the 1st night. Trust goes both ways.
If your ok with FWB type of thing give him a call. He might have really liked sleeping with you and might want to do it again. Go out on a few dates and see what happens you don't always have to have sex, kiss and fool around, that will make next time you do have sex more exciting cause you waited for round 2.
probably not, I had a drunk kind of fooling around one night stand and I was disgusted with myself when I woke up in the morning next to her because I didn't even know her. I apologized to her and left. For some guys, the sex or heavy fooling around the first night is nice yes but not usually followed up. Sorry. If you really liked him, call him and explain and let him know that you both were into it and that you wanted to see if he felt the same
don´t get your expectations too high but also don´t assume the worst just let some time pass to get clear about what you personally expect from this .
and if he should not make any contact maybe he´s too shy ore a little bit ashamed take it into your own hands and get what you want and deserve. Be confident! because if you are not why should he?
dont expect too much because you slept with him right away after you met him. he might call for more but if you want him to date you, he need to ask you out and date you for a while before you have more sex with him.
That is a good sign. Did you sleep with him or just talk. You know a lot of girls wouldn't actually talk to the guy about the situation. It is good that you did.
well usually when a girl sleeps with a guy the first time they meet he only sees her as a sex object and is not looking for a relationship. if he considered you a one night stand he will not call. but if he's looking for round 2 he will probably call for more sex. but maybe if you keep meeting up for sex he might start liking you but he will never be with because he won't be able to trust u. he will feel like if you slept with him on the 1st night you would do that with any guy you meet. even if that's true or not. so I suggest if you really like a guy don't sleep with him for at least 2 months. that way he would be more likely to make you his girl.
My friend has this same problem. she always sleeps with a guy the first day she meets him then she wonders why they stop calling her and wonders why she can't get a man. I told her to wait before she has sex with them but she doesn't listen. I guess she will be single forever. - 2 months ago
Not true, or at least not for me and most of my male friends. One of the best (and longest) relationships I've ever had started with sex on the first date. Another started with sex on the second date. I still talk to both of them and would trust each of them with my life.
Think about it: if some guy disrespects you just because you had sex with him right away, why the hell would you want to date him? - 2 months ago
Answerer
I agree, you can have a relationship after sex on the first date. but I think it would be hard to trust the other person. they may be sweet and the nicest person on earth. but honestly they must like sex a lot if they couldn't wait so it would be hard to trust them. its not about disrespect. a lot of guys are looking for the girl next door type to bring home to mom. a perfect girl. meanwhile no girls are perfect. all I'm saying is your chances are higher in finding and keeping a man if you wait. - 2 months ago
Question Asker
I really appreciate all the help I'm getting. Some of it good and bad but it's a good reality check. It's hard talking about it to your friends cause they don't want to hurt your feelings so you don't know if they're being honest with you or not. Well it's been about 3 days and no word yet so...fingers crossed...I mean I'm young..a girl can mistakes right? - 2 months ago
Answerer
Your right. I was in a relationship for about 5 years with a guy I slept with on a 1st date. but are relationship was not a good one. he never trusted me. he would always look through my phone. call me like 100 times a day to c what I was doing and where I was at. we were always arguing cause he swore that I was cheating on him which wasn't true. so finally I had to end it. I learned from my experience. so now I try to wait before having sex with a new guy. - 2 months ago
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