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What is wrong with me?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 5 months ago
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I don't know why I feel the way I do. I've met this guy who I really like, he seemed really keen at the start & still does to a certain extent. We have been on 2 dates but txt/talk on the phone. I find myself doubting everything, and always feeling the need to ask questions because I am worried that he will lose interest in me.

I don't know why I do this, I analyze things and always question things and my last boyfriend told me it would ruin my next relationship if I carry on but I can't help it. I sit here sometimes and cry for no reason, apart from thinking I am hopeless and will never find a nice man to settle down with!

This new guy has said I am a bit demanding wanting texts etc, but I'm only texting cox in the start he liked it too N says he still does. I think I am going to push him away with my behavior, he said I seem insecure but deep down I think its because I don't want to get hurt and I think as I like him so much there's a possibility I could get hurt.

How can I stop being like this?


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Falkenbok      When: 5 months ago
I think he's right -- you do sound a little insecure.

Work on your self esteem. You don't need to fawn over him every second of the day -- he'll know you care and think just as kindly of you if you're on one phone conversation a day (if he's at work, try to make it brief) and a face to face meet perhaps three times a week.

Similarly, if he doesn't text you every day, it just means he doesn't text you every day. It doesn't mean he cares for you any less.

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