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How long should you be dating before you ask her if she loves you?

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schavster (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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How long should you be dating before you ask if "she really loves you"?

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volleyballgirl87
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volleyballgirl87 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 17 hours ago
Instead of asking if she loves you, maybe you should just tell her you love her. 6 months in my opinion is a good time, a little on the late side, but safe.
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Kedabee
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Kedabee (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 days ago
Why ask when you can just tell her and go from there
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polegirl
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polegirl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 days ago
dont ask her if she loves you! If you love her tell her that in person. And watch her reactiona dn what she says. Her face will give you a clue on how she is feeling when you tell her that you love her. Good Luck!
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shawtixrock
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shawtixrock (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 days ago
Depends on the girl.Some fall for guys really fassttt & some dont.
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natural-spice3
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natural-spice3 (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 days ago
Don't ask her if she loves you. wait for her to truly feel and then she'll tell you. You should tell her when you truly feel it, but don;t get to pushy with her. Let her take things at her own pace!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
On the third day I was with my boyfriend he told me he loved me(we have know each other for 3 years prior to going out). I was like wow.ummmmm.
But we still go out and I totally love him and I told him so!
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hedwidandtheangryowl
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hedwidandtheangryowl (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
if someone asked me "do you really love me?" I would be really put off.

if I said "i love you." I meant it.

if I didn't, but I do, I'll do it on my own time, I don't need or want prompting.

if I don't love him, I won't say it.
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greg64 You are a rare woman if you're actually one who says what she really means, as opposed to playing games, meaning one thing, but saying or doing another. If more women were like you, they might have better relationships, because at least he'd know where you stood, as opposed to having to look into a crystal ball or trying to read tea leaves to figure you out. Most men appreciate a woman who DOESN'T play games with their head, but instead tells them how she really feels straight out. - 12 days ago

OnoNw1
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OnoNw1 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
do you have another girl you're interested in so you don't waste time on this girl who doesn't love you potentially? wicked. usually after great sex is the right time; any time before that is way too soon. besides girls are simple, least I think, we just want to be around a good uh. well yea a good lover :).
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greg64 Simple? I don't think so. But if you wish to view your gender that way, more power to you. I understand women need to be careful, but, there's a difference between being careful and getting a guy so confused he can't tell what you want or where you stand, which was my general experience with women, until I met my wife. - 12 days ago
radical46 WHAT, lol. After sex is the worse time to tell someone you love them for the first time. It will seem like its more about lust than actual love. How can you say the woman doesn't potentially love him do you know her. It could be that she loves him as well and is afraid to say it because je doesn't feel the same. He asked about love all you seem to know about sex and they are 2 completely different things. - 3 days ago

Sundown
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Sundown (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Why do you have to ask her if she loves you. How long should you be dating before you tell her that you love her? That's the question!
You can't put a time on love. You can only express your feelings.
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ohanagurl
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ohanagurl (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
You shouldn't ask this kind of question. I think if you love her like really love her I think you would know when the right time is. You and yourself is the only person who can give you this question.
But I would say 2 three 3 months or when you guys are like totally comfortable with each other.
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Deeplove55
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Deeplove55 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
You shouldn't have to ask. Her actions should show it. that's how you know. She'll listen to you, respect you, call you all the time, she'll say it,
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greg64 Unfortunately there are a lot of women out there who WON'T say it, who expect him to read their mind all the time, then get all bent out of shape if he doesn't read their mind right. So the poor guy never really knows where he stands unless he asks her in that case. He may really love her, she may really love him, but she just needs to change herself a little so it can work. - 12 days ago

DSsgurl16
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DSsgurl16 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Well there isn't really a period time you have to be dating but you don't wanna move too fast. It depends on your feelings for her especially if y'all have been together for a while. Maybe you should just sit her down and talk to her when you feel it's the time to talk.
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fergieatheart
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fergieatheart (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Well first of all, you're not supposed to ask if she loves you. You're supposed to tell her you love her! And it's different with every relationship. Say it when you're sure.
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attractiveontarioguy
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attractiveontarioguy (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
Shouldn't ask, it should be told to you unless you have uncertainty as to what her intentions are. if you ask it comes across as needy and insecure, women hate that, they want a confident man, so act as if she's just GOTTA love you, of course, you expect it
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kevin-camron
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kevin-camron (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
hehe, you won't fall in love during the dating periods dude,how long could dating go on?i guess maximum a month,but love is a hard thing to come by it takes time,now don't confuse love with proximity infatuation.
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darkkakashi004
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darkkakashi004 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
4 months
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