This beautiful girl gave me her number

no show to face to face meeting is a bad sign sorry to say. but for future times don't rule out girls who try to talk to you because they might just be a waste of time. you might pass up someone really good that way!

the club at night she was a noshow? are you sure she's not under 21... that could be the reason lol =)

No offense but you do sound pretty stuck up and pretentious. You said that this girl was pretty and knew some Greek but because she had blonde hair and blue eyes you had been there done that as if she is just a nobody. First of all you are probably not going to find the love of your life in a club. Try meeting people in your surroudings outside the club/bar scene. Like through friends, at parties, or at a concert or a more toned down venue where everyone doesn't have sex or getting drunk on the brain. And please don't play hard to get. We will think you aren't interested and quickly move on. You don't win by playing games but by being honest and being yourself. And if you really do wanna pursue this girl (which I actually think you should because she does sound like a good catch) then don't let a little set back ruin everything. Things happen. It isn't being stood up when the person texts you and says they won't be able to happen. And did you guys make a date to go to the club or were you just expecting her to be there. Because that isn't such a bog deal either.

Don't play hard to get, that's like the dumbest thing to do... She doesn't seem like that type of girl... I say just call her up soon (tomorrow or Wednesday) and arrange something for like Friday or Saturday. That doesn't mean you should stop texting her... NO WAY! Keep texting, but call her up in a day or two... And all that crap about saying you're busy on the first day she is available is crap... I think anyways...
Have fun and be yourself!
Good Luck!

Don't play hard to get because she's not playing with you. She seems straightforward so using the kind of games you would play with the average club chicks wouldn't be appropriate for her.

aw that's really sweet. good for you. =)

i would be cool about it...don't seem too eager. ask her out on a nice date that's no too expensive so you can pay for her but not wind up broke. just be really sweet and do nice little things like open the door. girls love that sh*t. but don't let her take advantage of you being nice.

as for calling...hm...don't call too often because the calls will lose their fun and appeal. every once in a while, text or call something cute or just to say hi.

if she's older, just be careful. careful with what, I'm not sure. but you know. :)

Wow, I am happy that things are going well for you! This girl definitely sounds interested, and quite a catch too!

Personally, I wouldn't play hard to get. I think it comes over as immature and uncaring. I'm not saying you should ask her to marry you straight away or anything, but there's nothing wrong with speeding the relationship on its merry way as much as you can - and communicating and having fun with her is the way to do that, not playing games and avoiding her for the sake of seeming aloof. If she's as beautiful as you say she is, she will be getting a LOT of interest from guys. You need to show her that you stand out from the crowd by being sweet and caring as well as good-looking. You guys should be aiming to feel like you belong together, not playing some cat-and-mouse game!

I'd definitely call her. And ask her out for dinner too! Choose some place romantic but down-to-earth (not something high-end where they have French service and waiters hanging over you all night - you want to get to know her and be relaxed and informal together. You guys seem to be getting along pretty well, so you need a place where you can just be together and talk in a dress-down, chilled kind of way).

Good luck!

This is a classic story of why looks don't matter to women as much as we think they do. I myself am a good looking guy also, but they only go so far as you experienced. She was attracted to you texted you, and you went over board with the texting, and asked her to lunch and what do you know she was a no show for that and also for the club.

Do you not see what you did wrong here? If not I'll break it down for you, from the beggining, you met a hot chick, she wanted your number you got hers, and then you had fun little conversations via text message, if you were interested in her you should have asked her on a date right away like after the third text or so, but you didn't you asked her to lunch, lunch dates are for friends dinner dates are real dates, the texting and the talking on the phone was to much at one time. If you reveal your life to a woman over the phone or texting, what more do they want to know about you, they practically already know you. So she was probably thinking well I don't want lunch to be weird or anything I already know a lot about him, and so she bailed and she bailed again when you were supposed to meet her at the club.

Your story sounds very similar to me :) lol that's good I think you pretty good of attracting girls and need to work on ur finishing :) I got the same problem too (finishing off)
I have like tons of number in my cell but hard to find a time to date them lol I'm 21 in college and ya I'm a nice guy too
hopefully just sex too for now since I'm single if she awesome then I'll go out with her