I've known this guy for a long time...we met online about 3 years ago. He was originally from nearby where I live, but he was away at school at the time (about 3 hours away). He was often flirty, saying we'd make a cute couple and things like that...but nothing ever came of it. We hung out once or twice, but kind of lost contact. Now, about 2 years since the last time we hung out, we've recently gotten back in touch and I found out he lives only about 45 minutes away from me now. He'd been continually telling me that he wanted to see me again, that he was excited and thought about me often. He's a med student, so he's also very busy and I tried to be understanding of his not being able to get together immediately, but he ended up bailing on me twice. This last Friday, he was finally able to come over. Unfortunately, we didn't make any real plans and we're both a little indecisive, so he came to my apartment and hung out with me and my roommates for a while (they each had dates over as well). We rented a movie and watched it (still with the roommates there) and the entire time, his body language was a little stand-offish and he was pretty quiet. I was really expecting that he might try to make an excuse and leave when the movie was over...but instead, he stayed for 2 and a half hours ('til 2am) after my roommates finally went to bed, just talking to me. When leaving, he said he'd like to hang out again, I promised to plan something fun to make up for the night and he told me to give him a call sometime soon. Everything I've known thus far tells me that being told to call him and the lack of positive body language means he's not really interested. But, my friends say that if he stuck around for that long, there has to be some interest and he's probably just shy/nervous. So...should I give him a call? and if so, is the next weekend too soon to ask him to hang out again?
I think this guy likes you. Med students usually have about 1 minute of free time per year. If he stayed till 2 in the morning he likes you but there were other people there all evening so it's not like he was gonna jump on top of you in the middle of the movie. If you're gonna get involved with a med student make sure to start pursuing your own passions or work too cause you're gonna have to entertain yourself a lot in the future. But quality of time is usually more important than quantity of time, so if you can think of it that way without feeling like you are missing out on too much then go for it. Do as you promised and see where it leads. Everything in relationships is a back and forth balancing act as I'm sure you know; some guys love to chase; others like to be chased a little; some go back and forth depending on the time and the woman.
I read a funny story about an old physician who said that when he first met his wife of many years he arrived at her house for a date, sat in a chair while waiting for her to get her purse and promptly fell asleep, so tired he was from his internship hours. When she came back in and saw him sleeping she didn't wake him to be in time for their date activity but sat down in the dining room and quietly read a book for about half hour till he woke up refreshed (and quite embarrassed). Her kindness and understanding so impressed him that he married her. He thought most women would have woken him to be on time for where they were going but this woman seemed to understand how tired he was. This is what I think: she probably also had a passion for mystery novels or whatever and took advantage of the moment to read a few more chapters of her book! (She killed two birds with one stone: she came off looking like Mother Teresa but she also might have gotten to finish up her intriguing novel, something she was maybe secretly wishing she could finish anyway. Who knows.) Try to put yourself in a situation where you are really enjoying what you are doing anyway while you have to wait for this med guy. Guys who go out with female med students should do the same.
i think you should call him. because he was probably weirded out by bailing out,and having your roommates over. he's probably just a little nervous. did you make it obvious that your interested in him?
Maybe he isn't good at expressing his emotions in real life? Some people find it easier to express their feelings through chatting and emails, because it doesn't put the other person on the spot. You should try to indicate that you're interested in him, so that it gives his confidence a boost. On the other hand, he could just see you as a good friend and nothing more? Next weekend is too soon hun, have patience.. Med students have packed schedules! Maybe wait for him to call instead?
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