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farfrommellow

Am I the rebound girl?

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farfrommellow (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I've had a crush on this guy for a couple of months, and he just so happens to be my older brother's good friend. He was in a relationship for a year and him and his girlfriend broke up about a week ago. He and I have a lot in common and he is totally my type of guy and we also agree to take things slow since we are basically in the same boat. I was in a two year relationship and after I got out I went through those motions that I suppose he's going through. But I said all this to say. Should I take things slow and give him a chance or am I just the rebound girl?

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Hunterboyz
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Hunterboyz (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
Continue to help him build back his confidence.

Remain that girl he wants, but don't try to take things off yet.
He is still thinking of her.
I think most definitely take your time.

Start too fast and you will be that rebound chick.
Stay his friend strong... and you will get your reward.
When I say friend I don't mean hook him up with some other girl of course.
Just don't make your relationship a thing priority.
Let him do that.


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
He's known you for a long time if he's your brother's friend so you wouldn't be a rebound girl because there is too much risk involved. Take it slow and that'll guarantee you don't make a mistake on impulse.
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sk8tergirl1994
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sk8tergirl1994 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Well rebound is what I used to think I was. Think I got confident in what and who I loved. Think about rebound before you shoot.
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