I go over his house all the time. Only at night we hang out. we don't talk on the phone or text. He only calls to see if I can hang. And he gets mad when I don't bring my female friends with me. And he has so many negative things to say about me,yet he always invites me to hang out. We have never kissed. But every now and then he gives me this look ,or he will say certain things ,that are kind of flirty. But when we are talking about the kind of partner we want. He describes a girl completely opposite of me. Sex always comes up in our convo,but he's never tried to make a move on me. Except one time we were laying together,and we were doing a little touching but when I asked him to kiss me he would(we were a little tipsy).
But what's so weird is that he's a very attractive guy and he's got a great personality. He could have like any girl he want(and I don't say that about most guys)why does he keep spending time with me. Ill go over his house at like 6 and stay till3 in the morning.
I have no clue. And what sucks so much is that I like him a lot! but I need to know. I don't want a man that doesn't want me.
Please tell me. Does this guy like me? Have some intrest in me? Playing with me? Just trying to **** me?
This guy sounds like he has a few issues. He sounds like a player who likes "playing" with girls, but it seems pretty clear that he has a crush on you, that may be why he wants you to bring your girl friends over so that he can have a divergent from you and relax and "play" with the other girls so that his crush for you may be dampened, or he just likes hanging with all his "ho's". So yes he does like you more than you know and this troubles him because he is a player and not sure about you being "with" him long term or is not used to having feelings or being in love. If he didn't like you he wouldn't even bother inviting you nevermind asking you to bring your friends and NEVERMIND KISS YOU. It is quite clear he likes you, you have all the evidence. He tells you negative things not to abuse you but rather fight his feelings for you and get over his crush for you, when in fact he likes you allot, he just don't want to admit it.
Remember You are worth it, never downplay yourself or think yourself unworthy of respect and love.
He might like flirting with you because it's fun, but it sounds like he might have a crush on your friend instead. If he likes your friend, it's understandable why he got upset that you didn't bring her with you.
I feel like he's is the type of guys who is pretty immature right now. Also, from reading about what you said, it seems like he would have asked you already if he really liked you. If he talks to a lot and wants to hang it could be because maybe he thinks you guys are really good friends. From my experience with guys I feel like he doesn't like you right now but you never know later on.
From a girls point of view. It sounds like you are just a cool friend to him. Pretty much like one of the guys. He loves to hang out with you but pretty much nothing more. And he's probably interested in your friends and figures you can help him get closer. He might like you a little but it doesn't sound like anything serious.
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He smiles at me sometimes and he walks me to the car and sometimes doesn't say much. I'm so shy that I get so I can't even ask him anything either!...
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When: 5 months ago
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