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Do I need to give up?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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So I like this guy and he tells my friend that he likes me to but he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he just wants to get to know me better but he is always to busy to even hang out out. So I don't know he is always saying that he is confused and he doesn't know what he wants but he still gives me attention like he likes me. Should I just give up?

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FranFig21 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
That's a hard question to answer. I guess it really depends how much you like him. If you really like him, you should wait, but you shouldn't wait too long. You don't want to push aside other potential relationships because you are waiting on him. You'll end up regretting it he never gets together with you. But try to talk to him first. Try to get him to open up about this before you make whatever decision you are going to make. It seems to me that you are hearing things indirectly and I wouldn't do that.
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Question Asker I totally agree with you, but surprisingly today we actually did hang out me my friend and him went to eat and then went to play pool it was fun but I still don't know because when I am with him I can help but to like him so much but when were not together I do think about him but not as much anymore. Its really confusing hmmmmm. - 7 months ago

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
When a guy really likes a girl, usually he just goes for it. If he's being wishy-washy like this, you'll have a hard time getting him to commit to anything. This will be the guy who is always changing his mind. It's just too unreliable.
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basketballgurlly-24 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Hey yea I am in the exact same situation. It is really hard I mean my friends try to tell me to and at one point I thought that I was over him but then I saw him again and then I realized how much I really liked him and yea I am waiting for him but I'm trying not tho wait to long or I will get hurt really really bad and that is just not kool
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redheadgirl520 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I don't believe that anyone can be "too busy" for someone that they truly care about. Think about it. It's like saying "Oh, I can't have feelings for you until I finish this research paper. Then we'll start a relationship"! That is ridiculous! I would say "yes", give up on the guy. He is wasting your valuable time.
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lostandconfused (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
I'd say move on and continue living your life. If he is truly interested in you he will chase you. If he doesn't, then there's your answer.
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