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GUYS: if you were into a girl...... why would you?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 14 days ago
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I have been seeing this guy for a few months now. He told me that he only wants to see me and isn't interested in seeing anyone else. He is really shy and hard to read sometimes so I was wondering what it means when he says that and then still logs on to/pays for a service on a site where you can MEET OTHER GIRLS? I haven't said anything because it's only been a few months but it does make me wonder. He seems to be really genuine but I don't want to waste my time if he's only wasting mine. SO guys, if you were really into a girl what would make you still log on to those sites? I would appreciate any answers. Thanks so much.


Update: the site he is on is hotornot just to clarify. I guess I guess I could have mentioned that lol Sorry about that. So he has a paid membership on the meet me section on that site.    14 days ago

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nique23      When: 13 days ago
I know this question was meant for GUYS , but I still felt the need to answer. Maybe ( and I'm leaning more towards this theory ) he's still going on this site because he wants to keep his options open. I'm not saying he's not into you and that for the past few months he hasn't been genuine , but because your not "official" it's possible that he wants to see what else is out there. Translation . . . . He doesn't want to have to settle if he knows he can get someone better then you. I mean it's not like it's a free site . . . He's paying for it. If I were you I would talk to him about it and if not just keep wondering , but don't I know how much good that will do you.
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Koffy      When: 14 days ago
the only reason I would log on tot hat site still if I had found a girlfriend is it I had found a good friends through my search... that's just me though
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Sirhc001      When: 14 days ago
Hmmmm. That's weird =/ and confusing. That sucks. I'm sorry. My only thought process would be that he has girls he has gotten used to talking to and is actually like friends with. He wants to talk to them because being only connected electronically makes it easier to talk to each other than face to face. He probably just enjoys talking to some people on there. It is a meet other girls site though so that is strange...
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Cartiphilus      When: 14 days ago
No, I would not.
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