About 2 days ago I found out some stuff about my bf:: 1st that he had really bad history so they called him HOE JOE. 2nd he has a baby and 3rd that he just likes 2 fool around with girls and leave them! Well I ask him about all this and he said they called him hoe joe because back then he used to be a player and hell no he didn't had a baby!
He said his ex girlfriend was telling everybody but that ain't his kid! But yeah he has pictures of the baby and he said because his mom was really close 2 his ex gf! He said he really loves me and he will never do me wrong and you could say I believed him!
Well yesterday I lost it to him and it was wonderful but my best friend was tripping cause she said I made a mistake because of all that shit I was hearing about him! Do you think I did wrong and I should have waited?
You did a wonderful thing!! no you should not have waited. There are too many odd predicaments in the story of his past life, that are quite uncomfortable to deal with. yes people make mistakes, and learn to change. However, in this case he seems completely in the wrong very much likely to hurt you in the long run. And plus, when you hear anything about baby mamma drama, it's already too much. You don't need that! you did the right thing. Move on to a man with less baggage. Betta yet no baggage.
"Back then" he was a player? What is he, 16? You didn't necessarily make a mistake because you do care for the guy and, as you said, it was wonderful. However, don't get too wrapped up in someone who has such a long history in a short life. He will hurt you, eventually. He is not going to mature as quickly as you hope. So, enjoy the good times but keep your guard up so you can move on to someone better when the time comes.
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