I am seriously considering having an affair with a married man that is almost 30 years older than me. I am on a non-profit volunteer board of directors with him and we talk on the phone often for a long period of time and he tells me he loves me, he misses me and we will both be in Europe at the same time and he wants me to attend one of the non-profit events and he is suggesting we stay at another hotel other than where the event is being held. Besides saying so much on the phone, he has touched the thigh, knee, cheek, shoulder, arm and hair. We had gone to an event and I gave him a ride to his car, he would not get out of my car, kept finding excuses to stay with me and touch! He is pushing for dinner now. I am not sure what I want.He wants to go together to europe and stay overnight in new york, he says that I am his weakness.
Update: Well I was able to NOT go to Europe which made him VERY sad. Once he got back though he has gotten bolder! We were at a fund raiser and I was selling tickets, he came and sat with me, the room doors were closed and we were alone in the foyer, he started.
9 months ago
This relationship is really sleazy, and has no future in it for you. Two things here; the age difference, and the fact that he's a married man. Come to your senses and end it! You are in for nothing but trouble.
It's not worth it at all for one he's 30 years older then you and for two why would you wanna get in the middle of his relationship that he has with someone else if it was me I would really consider telling him to get lost and that you don't want anything to do with him anymore and that if it don't stop that your gonna go and talk to his wife about his actions You can find someone more your age to share your thoughts and sexual drive with I just have to say that he's not worth it.
PureFury
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Wow, that's so f***ed up. How could you be thinking about ruining someones family. I doubt that you'd appreciate it very much if your husband of 30+ years started having an affair with some slut who worked with him. Just go find a single guy who wants to rub your thighs, I know there's a bunch of them out there.
You are seriously the type of Woman that gives real Women a bad name. Shame on you. That makes you a homewrecker... Proud of that are ya? Hey, I have an idea.. Why don't you go and tell this guy.. if he can hear you, because he is so old, maybe you can turn up his hearing aid..that it's an affair and the other parties, you know the one's...They are the one's at home waiting, trusting you two? Might not like it to much.. And you have the nerve to post your picture up? Hey, way to step up homewrecker..
If your ok with being second to his wife and a secret then go for it. Experience from a friend with a married affair, thing I'm just warning you to be ready and don't put your heart into it. He'll never leave her if he knows he can have both of you.
My friend's parents are in the midst of a divorce, and I can tell you she and her brother are not reacting well to this situation. Remember it's not just the two of you in the relationship, an entire family will be affected. Once that happens there is no going back.
Do you want to be a homewrecker? A slut? Worse, do you really want to be around a guy who is willing to cheat on his wife. No matter what a great guy he may be, that simple fact alone makes him a loser. Don't stoop to such a low level. If you want a man, go out and find a good one. If you're looking for some action, at least find a single guy!!
It sounds to me all he wants is a piece of ass and what happens if you get knocked up? Did you see that girl that just got murdered by her married lover? She was nine months pregnant. He seems manipulative and perverted.
Have more respect for yourself and his family. It might not feel like it now but he's a jerk and god knows how many women he's cheated on his wife with. Don't be one of them.
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