Has anyone ever thought?

We come in this world alone and we leave it alone.the time in between we learn to live with & love each other & ourselves.

Ok now that's funny, me and you - think alike! But were meant to be alone? Now before I answer your question I'll say something else. We humans ever since we are born are taught to be with someone else by our side, try to remember when you were at least 6 years old - who did you always play with? Who did you always walk with? Who always held your hand when crossing the street? Answer: a person! Who? It might have been your father or your mother, it might have been your teacher, your uncle, aunt, etc. Point being we were never alone! Just cause we choose to be alone doesn't mean all our lives we are going to be alone! Everything takes place in its own time. The question to your answer: NO we are not meant to be alone! Simple as that.

Marriage - last year in statistics 55% of marriages ended up in divorce but what we never realize is sometimes marriages don't work cause we don't even try to make it work! You know how many sites there are for married couples who want to cheat on each other cause they don't love the person they are living with and the only reason they are staying with that person is for security. You know how stupid that is to cheat on someone you don't love knowing that other person loves and cares about you. By the way this was on the Montel Show. People these days only get married for one thing - security not love. Love will never exist within that relationship maybe it will as the years go by - but that I doubt! We forget the true bond of marriage when two people are both given their vows - they don't really listen all they do is go "uhuh, go on - huh, what did he say? Oh well maybe next time I'll get it! " A lot of us pick that one person for their status - for the way they look on your arm as you walk across Broadway. Women especially we are so picky when it comes to getting married to someone - we pick one of the most attractive guys just to have good looking babies! And then we don't want to admit this but we all do this - no matter what anybody says we pick an unattractive person just to look better than that person! Do you see a pattern to this? We are all at fault for thinking the way that we do - marriage is appealing we just make it unappealing! The best advice I can give is do what your heart truly desires! You are not meant to be alone and the right person is just around the corner you'll just find her when you least expect it! And the fact that you wanna be alone for now - I get that same feeling I think you probably get it cause you see the way relationships end up so you start to think I will always be alone! I think like that I wanna be alone cause I see that but I still have faith and hope and that's what keeps me going everyday in life. No you won't trust me on this! NOBODY IS MEANT TO BE ALONE!

I totally agree with you. Personally for me, I'm tried of putting myself out there and having that not be good enough. And also, just like you, I'm tried of playing games and not getting to the stuff that really matters in a relationship. Sometimes I think that maybe I'm not meant to be with anyone. And other days I hope I do.
I think I could be content and happy all by myself. Not all people need a girl or a guy in their life to fulfill themselves. That maybe they're happy being who they are and doing what they love.

But to give you some hope, there are girls out there who want a nice guy. A guy that doesn't play games, who isn't using them, and is overall a good guy. We're all looking for someone special in our lives but don't want to get hurt. People play games so they don't have to open their hearts up to people and give them to the chance to be hurt. It's a defensive mechanism. And if you can get passed that, I think you'd be ok.
Also, marriage is something that takes time and effort from each person involved. I've seen my fair share of unhappy couples but there are always couples who work together and are happy. Just because some people aren't happy in their mariages that doesn't mean that all are. There is hope, you just have to believe the best in people. Understand why they do the things they do, and I'm sure you'll get some great girl.

I wish you the best of luck and may you find the girl that's right for you.

Human are not born to be alone, however there is time we have to leave the people and find your self, once you find it, you become the game. And you will no longer play the stupid game of others. So go find your self Jr.

I agree with anonymous any chance I can join the club.
And let me say you sound very mature and have a good head on your shoulders.
It seems like with some people they are damned if they do or damned if they don't
No matter what they do or how hard they try,i can relate.
How about a high 5

Ya, I'm totally feeling that way right now. Not that a person in my life wouldn't be nice. But I'm begging to think there is no such thing as miss right. Anywhere. So I guess ya, I do feel I'm better off on my own.

I think SUM41 says it best, "I'm better off on my own. "


AlpIne~

When you talk about girls playing games with your mind, it is so true and it is so cruel. Supposedly my ex-girlfriend whom I dated for one and a half years only liked me for the first month, and the rest of the relationship she was just playing a mind game on me. That stupid bitch. Well. I know how you feel, correct me if wrong, but what I am reading is that you are sick of going out with girls whom aren't your type, and having a crashing end to it. Well here's the thing bro, you're never gonna find that perfect girl unless you date other girls. For example, (i know its a movie) Heartbreak Kid. He sees this girl and he thinks she amazing, marries her, then holy shit! She's horrible! Life is the same except the other way around. You date a girl, and you find out later that she is that perfect girl you were looking for. I feel like I'm not making perfect sense, but what I'm trying to say is that, you need to try the girls in a relationship, otherwise your never going to be able to tell whether a girl is meant to be a wife/girlfriend or a really good friend. Good Luck.