Why do us girls always sit around waiting for the guys to make the decision for us to be in a relationship. We are friends with benefits but we want it to be more but we don't want to creep them out or mess things up. Why is this? Why do we wait for the guys to ask us out or make it official for us to be their girlfriend and we don't ask them to be our boyfriend?
Guys why do you make us wait you already know we act like were going out, don't you know we want you to ask us out. We like you to make official? Are you scared? Or do you not want it like that you just want to be our friend with benefits? Why?
Well here's the reason for that its like a rule the guy is never never supposed to say how he feels about a girl before she does, even if he wants to be in a relationship with you, we always wait for you to say that you have feelings for us, that way if you don't have feelings for us yet, like we do for you, and we say something like I really like you do you want to be together, oh man that can kill a spark in a second, and it can scare you off, or better yet you get the umm well that's sweet of you but I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS with you right now.
Guys like freedom more than anything. And they have time to burn and waste. So girl if he is sitting around and do nothing don't waste you time. There is more man who will love to ask you out. Remember there is more than one fish in the ocean.
Hun, if a guy is friends with benefits, he's not going to make it official. You've heard the expression, "Why would he buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free. " If a guy will take advantage of you and not be in a relationship with you, doesn't sound like he really wants to be with you, just wants to mess around.
I was only asking because all these questions about guys wanting to be with guys and keep waiting and waiting that's why I even asked - 7 months ago
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Well there are 2 types of guys that almost every guy fits into. There are jerks, who just use girls for their bodies and for messing around and sexual stuff, or there are nice guys that are shy, and are afraid of being rejected, so they don't tell a girl that they like them, and they never ask a girl out, because they are afraid of getting denied. I'm not sure what your current situation is, but if you're with a guy with benefits and he hasn't asked you out, he probably won't. - 7 months ago
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I have a boyfriend currently like I said the ? wasn't for me geez - 7 months ago
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Well I just told you why guys don't do it. Why would they want to change anything? They're getting free action without being tied down. The girl is giving away free stuff, so why would the guy want to pay for it by buying her things, hanging out with theer, being tied down, when she is willing just to do stuff to him and with him for nothing? She thinks that he likes her, when he just likes the action. - 7 months ago
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