It's all personal preference. I'm a firm believer of the old adage "Love is blind. " I honestly prefer a woman with a little meat on her bones than someone who looks like I'd crush them if I hugged them.
I don't mind. If I fall in love with a girl, I actually DO fall in love with her. Love isn't picky, it doesn't let you choose who you're interested in, nor does it care what they look like. That's why it is entirely possible to fall for a woman you've never actually seen over the net. Never done it personally, but it is possible. Looks matter, sure, but compared to whether you actually love the person or not, it makes no difference at all.
If given the opportunity between heavyset and fit not many people of either gender would chose heavyset. I mean its not just the weight. In my opinion it also has a lot to do with mentality. So simply said. Usually no.
Look around you. You do see men with heavyset woman don't you? Of course you do.
If you are heavyset I suggest you lose weight for health and self esteem.
Jessica32 is a rude girl and it wasn't her time she wasted it was yours. Men don't like bitchy girls that's for sure.
Look being overweight is a very large issue in this country and your not alone and if your concern about your weight then learn to eat better and exercise a bit. Because yes, most men want a woman who is proportionate to her height. You could always date someone on the heavy side if that would make you more comfortable.
Good luck and I am sure that you are a very sweet and lovely girl. And beautiful. Just think you could be ugly like Jessica32 and ugly you can't change. But weight you can always lose.
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