Why is he confusing me?

He sounds like he had other things on his mind to begin with. He probably had no business seeing you in the first place, because he must have had other things to tend to.

He just wasn't available, and he let you think that he was. Sorry you had to go through that, but it definitely wasn't anything that you did.

It was not you, do not feel that it was. Guys are fickle creatures. they can be totally infatuated with one person one minute and as soon as someone better comes into the light they change their mind. He seems young and inexperienced as well, so he may be afraid of relationships in general.

An Ex girlfriend came back into his life. He was probably not broken up with her for long, but you kind of have to respect that because at least he isn't stringing two of you along.

I can tell you right now, this guy isn't good. He was too good to be true. You have to be very careful with meeting guys on myspace. Don't trust everyone on the internet. From what you wrote...I think he has a girlfriend. I think he's a cheater. I had a boyfriend once for many years, and discovered he had been seeing a couple other women off the internet. I found out by breaking into his e-mail. I saw ALL the e-mails from other girls in there, and what he had replied back. He said really sweet an caring things to one of them...and if I was her, I'd be in awe over how amazingly sweet he was...but he was probably just saying those things to get into bed with her. When I read some of the e-mails he replied back to, there was apologies for not calling, seeing, and being distant from some of these girls he was cheating on me with (which made me think of your posting about how this guys aunt died). One of his excuses to a girl was that there was a huge accident at work, and he was at the hospital all night with a co-worker who was a good friend of his, and that's why he didn't answer his phone all night. Meanwhile, that was the night of my prom..so he was with me. Just be careful. I've learned it takes a lot to trust men..

Like Rachel said, he's not ready to stop seeing the other women. It sounds to me like he just got out of a relationship, and she came back to him. I am not sure, but that's what it sounds like to me.

He's not ready to stop seeing the other women yet. He's afraid you are wanting more from him than he's willing to give. Look.. Why would you want to put up with it anyway? Do you really think he's not myspacing other girls to come say "hello" too? At least he's showing you his true self, before you guys got into some serious relationship. He does not want a relationship, whether it be with you, or at all, right now. And you don't need to be falling for someone who won't be falling for you, anytime soon. He says he still likes you as much as before, but men don't always say the right things. He's over it. And he'll be stringing you along for a ride. I promise you this.