Right girls I need your help! I am right now dating this really nice girl. We already went out twice and everything worked out well. She laughs at my jokes, we flirt, she always smiles at me, long eye contact. As we were talking she told me about her ex and that she still has feelings for him as they only broke a few days before. Do you think I have a chance with her? What should I do? I don't wanna end up in the friend zone Thx in advance!
Update: Update : She phoned with him today were they had another fight :D is suppose that's a good thing She also calls me daily
3 months ago
ahh I'm kinda going through the same thing now.only the guy I sorta have a thing with broke up with his Girlfriend a while ago but they still chill and I just don't know how he feels about her. Coming from a girls POV, I gotta say, since her break up was so recent its normal for her to still have feelings for her boyfriend. I'd say unless she's acting on these feelings (still hanging out with him, constantly texting him/calling him) then there's no reason to completely give up. She obviously seems to have interest in you too. If she continues to talk about her ex and if it seems like she is more involved with him than you, then I would definitely talk to her about it. Confront her about the issue, if she says she is unsure, then give her time. She may just realize that there was a reason they broke up to begin with and she'll try to patch things up with you.
I think you do have a chance. The thing is - you need to take things slow - but make sure she's aware you are interested in her as more than a friend. Flirt, charm her, the usual - but don't take things too far. She'll appreciate that you're giving her time and not rushing her. Let her know that you're there for her - but don't suffocate her. Give her space and time to be alone. Don't rush into anything, you don't want to end up being a rebound.
well if she still has feeling for her ex then if you guys go out then she mite mess around with her ex.im not saying it would happen but I would just let her goo for now and give her awhile then go after her.
Take it slow. don't rush anything or expect a lot of things from her if the guy did a really shady move chances are she won't want him back. just breath I'm sure it will be fine
It seems that you do have a chance with her, however she still has feelings for the ex. I think that you should give her time. If it was only a few days since they've broken up then you should give her space. If you care about this girl, then you show her that you care about her, spend time with her, be with her, make her feel happy. But don't be clingy with her. But let her know that if she needs someone that will be there for her. Then she'll realize that she'll be more happy with you, than her ex.
It seems that you do have a chance with her, however she still has feelings for the ex. I think that you should give her time. If it was only a few days since they've broken up then you should give her space. If you care about this girl, then you show her that you care about her, spend time with her, be with her, make her feel happy. But don't be clingy with her. But let her know that if she needs someone that will be there for her. Then she'll realize that she'll be more happy with you, than her ex.
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