So I work with these two guys, Zach and Blake, and I'm pretty sure both of them like me. First I thought Zach liked me, cause he was flirting with me when I worked with him on Friday, then Monday, Blake was asking me all kinds of random questions about me, such as my hobbies, what I did after work, asking what exactly I major in, etc. and I thought at first he was asking for Zach because the questions were so random to me. Yesterday Blake was all, "I saw you driving today" and that's pretty much all he said to me. But then today I go in and Blake seemed a little too excited to see me. He waved, smiled and was all "hey". Then one time I flipped him off and he was like, "I don't like that attitude" and grinned at me. But today Zach didn't say much to me, but I think that was because I mostly worked in the back and he was up front. But I don't even know how to deal with two guys, friends at that, liking me. But I do believe both of them do like me. I think Zach is a little put off because of Blake, and he might feel a little threatened to talk to me around Blake (but I am always working with Zach when Blake is there) cause Blake will just start striking up questions to ask me. I also believe Zach is a little Iess outgoing than Blake, cause Blake can just start asking me questions out of nowhere, where as it takes Zach a bit it seems. I initially liked Zach, but he hasn't asked me to hang out yet (granted, I have only worked with him like 3 times and been working at that place for a week, so maybe I am being a bit impatient), but if Blake were to ever ask me to hang out, I'd say yes, if Zach is gonna take 2 months to even muster up the guts to ask me. It also makes it hard for me to get to know Zach cause he's working with at least 2-4 of his friends at any given time, so it makes it awkward for me to try and invade their little 'circle' and start asking him questions/talking to him, so I almost feel like he has to be the one to approach me. =\
You haven't really specified what you want advice on, in any way whatsoever. You can hang out with both of them, or only one and not the other. Zach probably isn't approaching you because he isn't getting opportunities to because Blake is butting in. He's being polite and waiting for a chance to get you alone so he can have a normal conversation, he doesn't want to compete, he doesn't like conflict. (This is all speculation).
I just really don't know what you want. Do you want advice on who to hang out with, or who to date?
Well, I know who I want to date, and who I like more.. which is Zach, but ugh.. I just don't know what to do. It's hard to get to know Zach because Blake is always there. And I'm kind of unsure what to do to let Zach know I am more interested in him than Blake. - 6 months ago
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Well, like I said, it seems like Zach is trying to be polite and doesn't want to butt in. Even if Zach is with friends, try joining his conversation and saying "hi", the guy sounds like he's too shy to do it himself.
Blake just sounds like a really outgoing, fun loving and slightly immature guy. Harmless, but as you said, threatening to people like Zach. - 6 months ago
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