Why does this guy I've been talking to keep telling me what type of guy I need. He has me all wrong, and when he tells me I need a guy who I can walk all over, I tell him how completely wrong he is and that I am looking for a guy who can put me in my place. I go by the saying "like it, love it, or leave it" You are either going to like me, love me, or leave me, either way I will not break down, that simple. We recently started talking sexually and I really like him and want him to see that he is the one that I want. What do I do to make him realize? Oh, and he loves the fact that I am saving myself for my future husband, if that helps at all.
Maybe next time he says that, you could say something like, "I think I need a guy just like you!" If you say it in a flirty way, I think it would be cute.
I mean, I wouldn't be aggressive about it, even though you probably feel like saying, "Hey dummy I want YOU!"
So he called me today and and I told him I had been thinking about what he said about what type of guy I need and I told him I thought about it and finally realized what I need. All the bastard said was Good. So I'm on to the next guy, screw him. - 6 months ago
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Well, at least now you know. And yep - you can move on - just another one to cross off your "Potential Mr. Right" list, so the choice will be easier! ;) - 6 months ago
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LOL I know! - 6 months ago
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Thanks for your help, by the way! - 6 months ago
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What has given you the impression that I need to grow up or that I am a girl and not a woman? - 6 months ago
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What gives me the idea that you're not a woman? what doesn't? why shouldn't i? the way you talk is a complete spell out of "im a girl" you know why? check out your question as said above you believe in "love it,like it or leave it" now ask yourself why shouldnt I think you're not a woman.you're stubborn insensitive and you're a girl. ok?. b4 you go on acting tough little girl you should look at yourself. I've got far more complicated situations than you go through. I myself was once like you. - 6 months ago
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I was once like you but I grew up to fast, I became a mother at a young age in fact I just gave birth to him. I learned that being a girl could sicken a matured man. I'm fun and outgoing just like you but there are limits and I don't go over board. - 6 months ago
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Just because you give birth does not make a woman or make you grow up fast. I think you need to reevaluate yourself before starting to judge someone else that you do not even know just by a question. I live by like it, love it, or leave it because you will either like me, love me, or leave me, either way I am still standing. I am not insensitive, I am protective of myself. I know what I want and what I don't and if I so called "man" can't understand that, then NEXT. I don't know what - 6 months ago
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I don't know what has made you believe that your situation is far more complicated than any situation I have been, you cannot compare us, nor can you compare yourself to anyone else. You don't know me or my life as I do not know yours and it is premature to even make assumptions as you have. Good luck in your life. - 6 months ago
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If being a mother isn't being a woman to you well then what on earth is a"woman" to you?? because I know for sure you ain't one. and yes I CAN compare myself to ANYONE I wish to. premature? well before you should've joined here you should've kept in mind that not everybody would give you a POSITIVE answer. this is for real girl its what you call LIFE.i didn't say I became a woman because I gave birth.what I said was that I became a mother that's why I taught myself to be a woman - 6 months ago
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Your answer had nothing to do with my question. I refuse to engage in this conversation with a little girl whom thinks she knows what she is. Have a wonderful life. - 6 months ago
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