Say a girl like me, my age range. Like 19 years old. Say she were making casual small talk to a 30 year old man. What does that 30 year old see the girl as. A little girl? Irritating? Immature?
Ok I'll be honest, I'm attracted to this man but I am just making conversation and trying to get casual with this guy (not sexually, but of course I would like to). I am just hoping I'm not making a fool of myself and that I'm outta of my mind thinking that talking to him will make him think anything other than me being this naive girl. I'd love for this to lead to something more, especially physically wise. And please don't lecture me about wanting a casual (sexual) relationship. I know full well what I would be getting into and I'm not devoted emotionally. It's mostly a lust.
I don't know too many men at the age or my own age who would not want sex with a hot 19 year old. But that is just with sex. For something more permanent, you would be a slight distraction. A person in their 30's or older would be frowned upon in public in america, being tagged as a pervert and sugar daddy. You would have mixed reactions though. Some would hail you for your maturity, others would ridicule you as a gold digger. Its a very touchy subject. Your personality and how you relate to him will determine how he treats you. No matter how pretty a younger woman may be, older men are more experience and is difficult to enchant them with your looks. If he decides you are an eyesore, he will dump you faster than moly potatoes with worms whereas younger men would probably be hooked. If you are indeed looking for a sex-fling, my best suggestion is to keep this under wraps and discreet.
How he is going to look at you depends on the conversation. It does seem like immature would be hard to conceal, but at 19 it's hard to say. Some girls at 19 are very grown up. But if you're more interested in the physical part than any emotional involvement, then does it matter that much? What if he's not just wanting something physical? You know what you're getting into, but does he? Are you thinking about what happens if he falls hard and you're still in casual mode?