How to get a guy?

There is nothing wrong with you hun. Chances are, you're just really shy! And the majority of guys at your age are very shy as well. I didn't have my first girlfriend and kiss until I was 18. But try and be more outgoing and not so shy.

Usually people fall for each other for purely random and insignificant reasons. Only some things can alter the possibility of more guys talking to you, but, often times by altering yourself you then start attracting the WRONG guys. If you act yourself, do what you like, and are who you are, you will meet guys who like you for you. The problem is, many people who don't fit stereotypical norms don't find anyone in or during his or her high school years. When you get to college you will almost indefinitely find someone, or they will find you. I'm 19, so I still remember people telling me those same lines, and I'm also far enough in college to know they're true.

If you really want a boyfriend and don't care about being used or dating someone who you really don't like, if you just want a boyfriend, or to have the title of "dating", there are things you can do.

1. Change your appearance. Ask friends, strangers, and family if what you wear is considered approachable, if it isn't, go out and get new clothes.

2. Change what you say. Ask friends, strangers, and family if how you speak and what you say scares or pushes people away.

3. Change what you do. Start learning about and experiencing yourself with what all the "cool kids" are doing.

All I can say is I hope you don't do this. You will never be happy or satisfied if you hack away at yourself in an attempt to be someone you are not. All of these things are superficial.

Also, you aren't the only one not dating. I bet at your high school there are tons of people who haven't dated or have only dated a small amount. I don't date that much myself, I haven't been able to find someone I like.

I hope I've helped somehow, in some way, and I hope you feel better.

Feel free to ask more questions.