Is he 'into' you? He broke up with you and now still looks you up and down?
He's not likely into you unless you've offered him a 'friends with benefits' position which is another topic completely. He's probably just a leech eyeballing the goods and enjoys flirting with you to make himself feel/look better to someone else in the area.
Listen guys are selfish.he likes you but wants to keep his options open in case something better comes along. But by showing you he is interested he wants to keep you "available".
If you want him, move on go out enjoy yourself.
if he calls don't always answer the first time round.AND THEN WHEN HE CALLS SAY YOU WERE BUSY AND IF HE ASKS DOING WHAT SAY NOTHING MUCH.keep him wondering what your getting up to!
if he invites you out don't always go out.or say yes then cancel with notice say something else has come up and you can't go and apologize (not too much)
His mind will be wondering that if your not taking up his time, who else is!
Just say you not looking for anything serious and whatever you don't don't sleep with him, he'll wonder if your sleeping with someone else, which he won't want!
Don't go back to his house or yours! JUST DON'T BE TOO AVAILABLE!
Finally when you do spend time with him compliment him.you look nice.and make him do all the manly things.all of this help to boost his ego!
Final note.if he calls you to go out don't say your available EVERY NIGHT OF THE WEEK ANY TIME! LET HIM KNOW YOUR ONLY FREE ON 2 NIGHTS OF THE WEEK AFTER 7PM FOR EXAMPLE.he'll wonder why and who else you are busy with during the rest of the week.
He probably is still a little into you, but I wouldn't read too much into it for now. He wants to have his cake and eat it too- he broke up with you, but he still wants you to like him. Just remember when he is flirting with you or staring at you that he broke up with you. You are better off moving on than worrying about what he is doing.
Let's say it has been days, weeks or months later after you or he or she does the breaking up. What actually helps you to wake up every morning and...
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