I feel like all my relationships just turn into games. I end up letting guys walk all over me. I need a little control and make him come to me, and do the phone calling. I'm sick of being the one getting hurt, and being a push over. Any ideas?
Yes, to establish that early in a possible relationship, just make him be the one to do everything. The calling, the paying, etc. That way, he'll know from early on that he has to be the one to make things happen, instead of having it handed to him.
SftballChick
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
First find a guy that you like, then whenever you talk to him act real subtle and don't give anything, act sort of like a tease, but not too much. Make him feel like he has to chase you and that it won't be easy to get you. Guys don't go for easy when they want a relationship, they want someone they can relate to and can just chill with kind of like a best friend that they want to kiss and hug and love. Don't act too needy either just give it time.
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For a first date, I would definitely go somewhere where its crowded, Since I don't want any pressure. I would wear a pair of jeans, and a nice shirt, maybe heels. The date would end with me in my bed, and him in his. Maybe a kiss on the cheek, depending on how good the date was.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He will know me from A to M, If he was a good enough date to listen. And of course, he would notice my craziness, and randomness