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A little control...Any ideas?

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edsonlg (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I feel like all my relationships just turn into games. I end up letting guys walk all over me. I need a little control and make him come to me, and do the phone calling. I'm sick of being the one getting hurt, and being a push over. Any ideas?

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Yes, to establish that early in a possible relationship, just make him be the one to do everything. The calling, the paying, etc. That way, he'll know from early on that he has to be the one to make things happen, instead of having it handed to him.
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SftballChick (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
First find a guy that you like, then whenever you talk to him act real subtle and don't give anything, act sort of like a tease, but not too much. Make him feel like he has to chase you and that it won't be easy to get you. Guys don't go for easy when they want a relationship, they want someone they can relate to and can just chill with kind of like a best friend that they want to kiss and hug and love. Don't act too needy either just give it time.
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epavlova (Age:Over 45)      When: 5 months ago
If a girl wants to get a little (or a lot of) control over a guy in a relationship, there are proven ways to do that.
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