So there's a guy that I work with that I like and I'm like 95% sure that he likes me. I really want to hang out with him and get to know him better, but I'm nervous to ask him to hang out. Not nervous because I'm afraid he'll say no. I just don't know how to ask and his friends are always hanging around him at work. And I'm sure he's been wanting to ask me to hang out cause there were a few occasions where he asked me when I got off of work, or what I do after work (this was before I even accepted the fact that I liked him, cause I liked his friend at the time). The other night he asked me what time I got off, and I told him 8, but he was closing. so yeah.
And now that I only will be working with him like 1 day a week (2 days this week, though), I don't know if he'll eventually just give up and move on (regardless of how much he likes me) or if he'll just shoot for it.
So guys, if you liked a girl and she wasn't making a move, would you eventually just give up and move on, or would you say hell with it, and just go in for the kill? I almost feel like he's hesitant because of our age difference, but I don't know. I don't care about the age difference, but he's 18 and I'm 23. I added him on facebook, so I think that's SOME indication of me liking him. I just don't know if I should sit back and wait and see what happens, since we've only been working at the same place for almost 3 weeks now, or if he'll eventually just give up.
I'm actually in a very similar situation. There could be a few reasons why he wouldn't ask you out if you know he likes you. 1. He's taken. 2. He's unsure about you (unsure if you like him). Schneiderman is right about aiming your cross hairs at him. So try to intensify the attraction (playful flirting, lots of touching of the back/shoulders, dropping hints about hanging out). Make sure your doing this with just him, some guys need a little push towards that direction. If he still can't take the hint, It's time you let him pull a little by creating some distance. Find another "option" to scare him into finally chasing you. It's always a game, make sure the balls in your court!
His Facebook says he's single, and he's asked me if I had a boyfriend. Well, he didn't come right out and ask me, but he asked me in a silly and indirect way. He asked me if I had a baby's daddy, so I told him no. He's done other things to make me believe he likes me, such as playfully teasing me, always talking to me, says a lot that I make him laugh and he called me silly once, just finds little reasons to talk to me in general, looks at me a lot, etc. So I definitely do think he likes me. - 4 months ago
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Whats stopping you? Go get'em girl! - 4 months ago
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