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First of all, if you really want to get some answers from your boyfriend, take a moment to get your thought together and decide on your objective. You feel that his not the same anymore, right? Well don't just burst into tears, whining..!! because to him this will come across as a nagging. What you want is for him to act the same way in which he made you fall for him. So you need to speak to him in a rational manner using a calm tone, Okay!! Because you want him to listen and not flee out of the room. So don't burst out in tears, try your best to leave your emotions out of it, and make your point clearly out to him and not because I'm saying to leave your emotion out of it doesn't mean you have to disregard your feelings, but you have to state your feelings as a fact and you will have a much better chance of being heard that when you dramatically display them. You follow? So tell him "when you __________, I feel______"! Then suggest a solution, tell him what you want..!!
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