the guy I've been seeing but not really boyfriend/girlfriend with got drunk a month ago and hooked up with a girl. I forgave him then just recently he got drunk and hooked up with the SAME girl but I still like him and he and his friend both told me after he hooked up with her he was like, oh shit, samantha!(me) but I want to still have my self respect so what should I do?
Update: i want to keep my dignity, but I really like him and he still likes me and he keeps apologizing he is leaving for europe for like 2months for summer so I want to tell him we will leave things be and when he comes back, we will see what happens.good?
5 months ago
It's over. He's going to do stuff in Europe. He's there for 2 months and I guarantee you he's going to hook up with different girls. Have some self esteem and self dignity and go for a different guy.
if you want to have your self respect, then you need to break up with him (or stop seeing him if your not "official"). Because he obviously has no respect for you. And you deserve better than someone who doesn't respect you.
You have to let him know his behavior is unacceptable so either need to take a break and tell him that you need to re-evaluate the situation with him, break up with him completely and see if he comes back (also tell him why), or you can continue to forgive him and he will continue to do the same thing because you have allowed the behavior to continue. It is your choice honey, choose wisely because it can affect every aspect of your life. How do you know this girl doesn't have any diseases he could bring home to you? You have to protect yourself first!
I think you should stop seeing him because I think they might have some kind of arrangement like a friend with benefit type. I don't believe that he just happen to fall in bed with the same girl every time he is drunk. Usually, when a guy is drunk he will think of girl that he has a hot for and he would call her that would be you.
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