Any first date ideas?

First off ask her over and ask her tell her you feel and then if you get a positive answer ask her to a first date to something simple like dinner and a movie.

Your problem is you're giving this girl to much thought. Don't think about the future, think about the here and now.

You just got out of a relationship, just flirt and talk to as many girls as you possibly can.

If you devote to much thought when hanging, out around a female you might get nervous.

Also don't doubt yourself half of spitting "the game" is being confident in your looks and your own abilities. If you don't have faith in yourself how can anybody else?