The guy I've been seeing has told me he likes me and complimented me a lot but he's shy when it comes to emotions and he hasn't asked me out yet. We made out though and got into friends with benefits thing. He cared about me and my family and always brought a talk about his family. I knew he really wanted to get into something serious with me, but I wasn't ready then. What I lately found out is that he pretended some another name and started texting me on msn. He told about his interests that really matched to the guy I've been seeing so he didn't change his persona, just his name and age so that I wouldn't find out it's him. But now I'm sure it's him! And I want to get in relationship with him and he is sending me signs he wants it too, but he keeps thinking I'm seeing other guys (since I have lied about it on msn) and I guess that's why he's not asking me out. I'm shy to talk about it too. Because I kind of messed myself on msn, what I told wasn't truth. And I don't know where's this heading. He also told me on msn that he slept with his ex but I wasn't sure then that it was the same guy, but I had suspicions. But he never told me in real he had sex with his ex. Should I tolerate this or move on? We weren't dating when he was with his ex and right before that week I turned him down when he called me on valentine's day and I didn't pick up.
I think you should talk to him about it. Ask him if its him on msn and if he denies it just don't worry about it to much but if he's shy you should ask him out and if he mentions anything about what you told him on msn just tell him you tell people that because you like him and you don't want people bugging you or hitting on you. And about the ex if it is him he is probably lying about it to get you jealous or so he seems like a different guy or something like that.
I know, but it will feel awkward, I'm not 100% sure he wants a relationship, just assuming from my instincts..ah - 5 months ago
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So? Guys ask girls out and get rejected too! - 5 months ago
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But I don't want that to ruin our friendship we had up till now, excluding the benefits we got along well... but I want something more than that and I know he sees me more than friend even once he said he wanted to be friends when we got into little fight. But he compliments me always and talks about me to his friends.. If I asked him out and he ignored me I'd be really pissed lol. by the way I've never dated b4 so he'd be my first and it's bit weird to be the first on that lol - 5 months ago
If you really like him you should ask him because not asking is going to ruin your friendship. You like the guy and he seems to like you why not help him by start asking him first. Don't be afraid .all he can say is no and then you know that you did your best.
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When: 5 months ago
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