My problem is that I don't enjoy going to Night clubs very much because I hate crowds and noise, I prefer other activities like picnics, movies, pubs, etc. Something more relaxing. Girls do you think I am boring?, Do I have chances to find a girlfriend?. Do all girls like going to Nightclubs?, how often do you go to Nightclubs with your partner?. Comments please.
I hate nightclubs most times. On occasion I go to them but mostly I prefer camping, picnics, movies.etc etc. It's not impossible and no you aren't boring.
yeah you have a chance! most people I know that are young don't go to pubs unless there is a match on or whatever and go to nightclubs more but you can still find a girlfriend without going to night clubs!
i don't think your boring that's just what you like and I mean when I go to night clubs id rather it be with my girl mates than my bf
Of course you have a chance to find someone. I believe there is always someone out there for everyone. You just have to find someone who enjoys what you enjoy or a girl who likes you for who you are. Don't go looking for love because that tends to take awhile. Just sit back and enjoy the single life until something finds you.
God made you. Unless God made you without the desire for affirmation, affection and love, from others, He also made a woman who will fit your personality, when He introduces you. Don't change your behaviors to attract a woman. Let God be the One who makes you, both, ready for each other. If you read the Bible as a love letter from the true lover of your soul, you will find the real definition of love, affirmation and more, in its pages. I am so tired of people telling me about the Bible, without realizing I can read it for myself, and it was written to me, just as it was written to them, by my Creator. It is not law, although it contains some. It is not judgment, although it describes how judgment works. It is an introduction to the One who loves you, as you are. It is the love letter of the One who died so you can truly live, as the person He made you to be, rather than asking you to die, or be killed, for Him. If you want a fulfilling relationship with anyone, seek intimacy with God first. He will teach you what real intimacy is and then He will introduce you to the people He made you to be intimate, in the appropriate ways, with. He is the true Friend, who never leaves, or forsakes, you, so He will introduce you to friends who will never leave, or forsake you. He is the lover of your soul, so He will introduce you to the wife, give you children, and everyone else who truly loves you, for who you are. God is the One who takes your confession of hurting someone else, digs down deep in your soul, excavating the buried wounds that contributed to hurting them, and have you grieve it so He can heal the wound and remove the need, or temptation, to react to that old memory in an unhealthy way, again.
This all depends on your location and your lifestyle really.
Many people have found their significant other in places like work, education establishment, parks, pubs.
The main reason I for one go out to clubs and pubs is to socialize and learn not to be so shy. A long time ago, I would be shy to approach a girl and by going out to nightclubs and making a lot of approaches I learned what works and what doesn't, how to chat up a girl and get to know her and get that number so then I can get her to other places I prefer, such as you say picnics, movies, pubs.etc.
It doesn't have to be a nightclub though, it just happens that in nightclubs it's much easier because you know most will go out there with the intent on having a good time and perhaps meeting someone that clicks with them. The approach becomes easier as say trying to approach a girl in a mall.
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