I just got back from dinner with my crush. Everything started off just fine, all of a sudden, my phone started ringing in the middle of our date. He asked me to pick it up, and I said No, it's OK, I'll just let it go to voice mail. Few minutes later, I had to go to the Bathroom, when I got out of the bathroom he asked me."Is everything fine?". I was like, "Everything is perfect" And I noticed he sort of changed on me, I asked him, "what are we going to do after this? and he replied that he was going home! WTF!?
Can somebody explain to me what the hell might have happened? We have gone out once before and had an awesome time!
He's a crazy person with some trust issues that sounds controlling to me. Who is he to tell you to pick up your phone? Maybe he has suspicions of you or heard something, the phone call incident probably looked to him like some other man calling & you going to the bathroom to call him back. I'm not sure but he's a little crazy sounding don't worry about it.
How long have you been dating him because it seems to me that he's really into you. He's jealous and since you went to bathroom after the call he assumed you called that person. Be careful he could be very possessive.
Maybe he thought you were taking a personal phone call (that must've been important and wanted to send you home). But knowing some guys who act similar to this, I doubt that. He may be that kind of person who get irritated by phone calls during dates and figured if its that important the date could end. Or maybe his original plan was to drop you off afterwards. Just ask him, tell him that he seemed a little different after he may have assume you took a phone call. But I feel like I should add that if he will get that controlling or anger over something so small, you may not want to be with him.
Did you leave the phone at the table when you went to the bathroom? If you took it he may have thought you were hiding something from him and calling someone back. If you left it he may have gone through your missed calls and saw that it was a guy. I would bank on it having something to do with that phone call though.
It could be several things and the most extreme one I can think of is he thought it was another guy calling you, he got annoyed that you didn't pick up so he assumed that you were hiding something and when you went to the bathroom, he assumed that you went to call him back so he got pissed and just went home. Or maybe he had something on his mind and decided to take it out on you for not reason or maybe he's hiding something. I would just let him cool off and talk to him tomorrow if you see that he still in that bitter mood, ask him what's his problem and then talk about it he may be upset at something
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