I'm not really too serious with anyone right now but I absolutely adore a friend of mine. He's gorgeous and so interesting, I've never met anyone like him and we're close now. He makes me laugh all the time, we talk endlessly and I sleep best when I snuggle with him in bed (in a non-sexual manner). I guess you could say we're dating since we do go eat/to the movie/to clubs together and we've had a few drunken, innocent kisses, but really, it feel more like I have a best friend (that I think is SO sexy). Not only would it be a shame to make a move, find out he's not interested and ruin what we have but he's also gone with his band to different places all over and I guess I wouldn't see much of him anyway.
It seems since I've gotten close to him, I'm not interested in other guys, though I've tried to be. I've fallen into celibacy because I'd rather go climb in bed with him and watch a movie or pass out. Sad but completely true.
I'm thinking "What if." more and more often lately. I think we would be great together but at the same time, he compliments me on being such a laid-back, easy to talk to girl. Has anyone jumped into it in a situation like this? How did it turn out? Simply, should I go for it?
I would go for it. I don't have any stories to share but. you could try sexing him up if you really want it. That's what I do. I start off as friends, and then slowly change. But I do subtle things (like expose parts of myself "innocently". HA!) until he realizes he's a guy, after all (and he could like you, just wants to respect you and be a "nice guy" yadayada). I'm in a platonic relationship with one of my hot guy friends, but even though he's attractive and I share absolutely EVERYTHING with him, I couldn't like him sexually. If you "sex him up" then he'll get interested, and you can get more romantic (unless he's gay).
Don't pass up the chance if you really feel close to this guy. Try to get out of friend zone (I doubt it would really ruin the friendship unless it's a bad breakup. guys usually like to stick around after that anyway. It's the girl who usually leaves).
You think like me, I'm noticing on the site today, haha. I guess I'll try to seduce him and hope he doesn't run. I'm hoping for a smooth transition from best friends to more than that but still able to be close in a best friends kind of way? Maybe I'm hoping too much but he's so hot, I have to try. Thanks for the advice. :) - 5 months ago
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I would worry about the being-friends-after-the-sex thing after you've seduced him, lol. WHich isn't too hard, so long as you're subtle ;)
btw, you live in japan? nihongo o hanaseru no? - 5 months ago
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Haha. Okay, I'll do my best. We're in bed together sometimes, that's a good time to make a move.
I'm here for a bit. Nihongo o sukoshi hanashimasu. :) - 5 months ago
i was in a situation just like this,after 2 weeks she made me take off her clothes and f*** her,she kept saying nothing happened we are friends we should stop but at that point I couldn't stop,we live together for 2 month and known each other for 4 ,but in my case everything fell apart,see questions I asked to know what happened,it was sweet at first,she made me get use to her face and style and everything,i guess she exploited our friendship for sexual reasons I never wanted to f*** her,she made me do it.
Awww man, she "made" him do it.He got laid. Awww, poor guy. anywho. That's a tough spot to be in. I went out with my best friend for 3 months. It started in a very non-sexual way and it ended in a very non-sexual way. To me, it was worth it though. We had some great memories together. We don't have any left over feelings anymore, but we are still close friends.
I know, right? Please. :( Anyway, if it does go bad I hope we can still be friends, I care about him so much and I feel like trying to hop on him is being greedy. I should be happy with a great friendship but I'm not so here goes nothing! - 5 months ago
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