I'm a girl who is totally used to a guy pursuing me hard. Everyday guys try to pick me up and I'm a picky girl. But, I found one guy that I absolutely find attractive and He's so arrogant he used to women chasing him. So, when will we mesh. and will we? Someone will have to break at some point right. Friendships and relationships work both ways I know. But, I don't want him to get in habit of me calling him always and then its like he's just returning my phone calls. I want him to call me to let me know he's thinking of me just because he is. But its starting to feel that way a little. Or is it just me being spoiled?
If you are worried about him getting in the habit then call him the first time to break the ice then wait for him to call and don't call him first. If you don't call him the second time then you start to get him thinking about you. He will wonder why you have not called him and what's going on, did he do something and then bam you will be in his thoughts and he will most likely call you. If that doesn't work I don't know what to tell you.
Hope this helps and everything goes well between you two!
It could be both. I'm a lot like this. I believe guys should be the ones who chase the girl, and it weirds me out when that changes. Don't allow him to get into the habit of expecting you to call first, because it will suck for you because that's not usually your style.
I know right. I hate this part of dating. I'm going to just try to be patient and wait for him to call me and if he doesn't then I'll know if he really likes me cause hell call. Hell at least call to see why I haven't called him anymore. then I;ll tell him why - 5 months ago