I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. I am really starting to like him more than I thought but I don't know how he feels and I think it's to early to start asking. He has called me EVERY night for a whole month straight. He tells me that he is not a "phone person" but that we just have great communication. How can I tell that he likes me without outright asking?
Update: I have met him in person. That's how I met him in the first place. He came up to me and asked for my number. Sorry I didn't clarify. Thanks!
2 months ago
theres lots of other questions that illustrate how guys who aren't interested are really inconsistent in their behaviour. This guy seems pretty consistent. If he phones you every night he must practically be arranging his life around phoning you. However if you really want to be 100% sure the only way is to ask outright. We can say it sounds like he is, but as you've seen already, miss a bit of information out and we could completely have the wrong end of the stick again.
You can't really be sure of anything until you meet him. Even if you both like each other now, it's a different kettle of fish upon meeting. The more you talk over meet, the more emotionally attached you potentially both get to a "picture" of someone that is incomplete. Just tell him you want to meet, no more talking on the phone.
You don't ask. Do like what all the girls do to us guys, make him go through hoops and see if he baits. He phones you every night! That's something. He sounds like he's hooked on you.
If all you do is talking then you won't really know much about him. Has he asked you on a date yet? You should hang out together, see his body language, how he talks to you, what he does for you then it will become evident if he likes you or not.
If unsure you could always come back here after you have a date with him and ask for more advice. :)
LOL. Thanks. We have hung out before and he likes to hold my hand etc. I've even hung out with him and his friends before and he doesn't mind showing affection in front of them. - 2 months ago
The mere fact that he has told you he isn't a phone person, which most straight guys aren't BTW, yet he is calling you all the time tell you that he is very much into you.
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