What do you mean by "a good personality"?

personality can be looked at in so amny different ways depending on what the woman likes some woman like a guy who has a good sense of humor while others like the romantic type, the one who will listen to a woman and be able to relate to them.

For me, a good personality is someone who can keep up a conversation, who has a good sense of humour and is confident in himself to speak his mind. A man who can lighten situations without trouble. Someone who is capable of joking around and being serious when the situation requires it. A man who I get along with without needing to force myself to.

If a guy doesn't have at least some of these aspects, then I tend to turn away from them. I need to be able to have conversations with a man, that is vital to me, and a lot of men that I have met haven't been able to carry on an actual discussion on any topic that wasn't one of their personal interests. For example, they didn't read the newspaper or watch the news or read anything more substantial than comic books, which made it difficult to have an adult conversation. Granted, these guys had decent sense of humour, but without the conversation, I was lost. I needed more, and they couldn't deliver.

when I lke someone for their personality its when we just "click" meaning we get along well without even having to try so hard.where we can make each other laugh easily.where we both are comfortable being ourselves.and where we have the same interests and hobbies and etc.

well, self love tops the list(not selfishness or self centeredness) , followed by good self awareness, ability to accept ones shortcomings gracefully, but working to enhance their strengths, feeling positive about themselves and respecting others. have a life that they live to the fullest and enjoy. must be able to listen actively, its not always talking and talking and bragging. must not feel insecure to compliment others. etc

Good Personality -
-Being able to bring levity to a situation when things get tense or too serious.
-Having the ability to be genuinely honest with the people you are talking to so that they can really believe what you say and want to listen to you talk when you have something to say.
-Someone that does not talk bad about others to make themselves look better.
-Having the capability to bring the best out of others by trying to include others in conversation vs. hogging all of the attention.
-Making those around him/her feel good being around them and being able to create an energetic/positive environment.
-And most importantly, to understand that actions speak louder than words. So they also are gracious in how they handle situations.

It is different for different women. Most women want a guy who is honest, trustworthy, loyal, kind, funny, and caring. That's not a complete list but you get the idea. Also, peppered with a little spice.

But like I said, different strokes for different folks.

All in all, I think a good personality is the real personality of that person. There's no need to hide it because it only makes it worst because that person is not being honest with himself/herself or others. If that person truly doesn't like his/her personality and it's not getting what s/he wants then s/he should work on actually changing it and not faking it.