Ways for girls to approach guys in friendster?

a message is always good cause it lets the person known you are not just adding then to your friends because.
small talk will always break the ice

I would say send him a friendly Message first. Just saying hi. Start small conversation if he responds back. Then ask him does he want to be friendster buddies. Its just the computer so you should have enough confidence to do so. Its a little easier than doing so in person, you will be less embarrassed.

I would send him a message saying that you read his profile and he seems very interesting. Ask him if he would like to start talking.

See what he says from there.

Good luck!

i think you should add him as a friend , if he asks you where does he know you from just till him , you tought he was your friends brother or the guy you met at that party 2 weeks ago .and then you can start talking to him based on that , and if he is nice then he will keep you as a friend be a little flirty but in a classy way.

yah, send him an innocent message. Or a funny one.
What did you notice on his page? Or pictures?
Comment on it.
Like lets say he has a picture of him that you think is cute, you can message him and say, "just wanted to let you know I like that pic of you .,.etc"
Or if you noticed on his music likes, he likes some kind of music that you like, comment on it. Be like, hey I noticed you like. (so and so) did you hear their latest song (blah blah)?